My brother is hiding adult videos in computer!

Hi dear, I know it's confusing and you have the right to be angry because he's only 13... my suggestion is you delete them -he'll know you found out- then you better talk to him.. if you told your mom then he'll keep hiding them from you and her... I believe the best thing is you delete the file and wait for him to ask then tell him you deleted them and talk to him... tell him he is too young to watch such things and that he better stop now or it becomes an addiction and that what he sees in these movies is acting it's not real... wish you the best :)

I know it's hard for you naadia, well how old are you anyway. I don't know is that comfortable for you to talk to your brother. Well adult stuff is something really atrract teenagers. I'm not denied that even me, trying to see such materials on 13, it's just like daily topics between boys. My parents never forbid me too, they just said, everything should be done with responsible. If you're really know what you're doing, just do it and take responsible with the result. But what I could say is, just try to talk to your brother, I don't think it's a matter since as long as you're capable. If you're not old enough to discuss, try to talk to your parents and let them advice our brother.

I’m impress of you’re brother’s awareness. :) I mean there are some 13 year olds that I know who still play in playgrounds. Anyway, these for-adult things may lead your brother to something he’s not supposed to do yet. Ask him what about it and see if what he’s got tell you. If he gets mad, tell him “next time better hide it somewhere that I couldn’t find it.” or if things like that are sprawling anywhere in your computer and you don’t want to see any of it – go direct to your parents. ;)

Hi naadia, im not justifing him.but it is the fact that he comes to his teen age.in there days,he is very eager to know everything.this is a part of this. i think You dont need to delete.dont tell to parents.you and your brother using system.when he use system,he could see that it is played recently. That he clearly might understood that he did wrong,if dont you tell anything.you dont annoy or notice him.from this he can understand his mistake. If you are going to tell your parents,it can make some problems in your brother and cant face their parents and you.it may cause sometimes hurt him badly.we cant predict what parents they do.in his age,it is available with friends.he can see it anywhere. Happy Myloting:-)

Well, i guess its normal... You should told to him about it... But do not scream or show much about it, after all, its a normal growing up process for guys... Especially, hes in a puberty period... Let him know its okie, because everyone have their needs... But, do not do the wrong things... =)

Hey! I think the best thing to do would be to delete the files and talk to him. Telling mom would have quite an opposite effect - he'll just hide them better. You can also install some apps to monitor what he does on the computer, so you'll be sure he's not getting more XXX.

I would delete them..but wouldn't say anything to your mom till you were for sure it was your brother.. I think a warning would suffice. and it could be it's not even your brother doing this..Since you didn't actually see him..it's best to have your computer cleaned..comfront your brother privately and ask if he used your computer for such things.. Tell him he is not to visit such places or play such videos on your computer.

I would definitely delete the folder so that you do not get arrested. You might get accused of showing those things to a child. You should also talk to him about these videos and how he was able to get them. You may want to also put some kind of security measure on your computer to prevent those types of things from being downloaded. I think your mom should be aware as well of what he has been doing.

I would really tell him you found it. you can get arrested for having it on your puter get it deleted now and see if a way to get it way off your puter and also tell mom! 13 years old shouldnt even have this on their minds they should be out playing games outside and outting their minds to something way better that this.

I would delete them and them talk to your brother about it and tell him that you dont' want any of that crap on your home computer. Don't tell your parents, teenagers are curious at that age so just tell him that you deleted it and not to bring it home. End of story!

first tell your brother what you found. If you go running right to your parents, you will create a sibling war. It is normal at his age to be curious. Also warn him that these things will slow down your computer and possibly cause virus's. Give him the chance to delete them himself. Maybe if he is aware that others can track what he is doing then he'll stop.

delete it, tell him that u found it, dont tell ur mom, because this kind of conversation will create trust and understanding because in few years he will be adult, also its good point to blackmail him.

Hello, I am a biy myself, nut i think that 13 is very young to get in touvh with that material... I advise you to delete it all. the thing is: he won't say anything about it, because he will probably be embarrassed about it and if he does say anything about it tell him that it is inapropriate for people his age to watch those things. the best thing to do when it gets out of hand, when he tries to threaten you or anything is to consider it telling your parents.... i know that that is very drastic but he probably realises that what he is doing is wrong. it just hasn't got through to him...

hi naadia its really a bad thing...as a girl i can understand the humuliating situations like this is hard to face but sometimes its happen in life that you face somthing is is not expected ....but dont worry you are not only person here who face this its happen with me too what i did that time i only deleted that vedioes and try to find out how it came in my system....first i talk to my brother about it not directly but in indirect way after that i found that videos doesnt belongs to my brother that were installed by his friends ...so i will suggest you first try to find out the truth then react..i hope you understand what i really mean is.

If you are only a sibling then you cann't get too angry. At thirteen(13) I lost my virginity to a thirty-three(33) year old woman. Pictures can not explain as much as a full grown woman who knows what she wants.

I would say talk to him and delete them this time but if it happens again you might mention it to your parents. I think it's normal for boys this age to be courious but at the same time since their on the computer you really don't know where they came from and there are some sites that sell to minors (under aged) and the parents end up getting the bill.

its normal when I was 5 I hooked up cable illeagaly just to see some boobs its normal for boys to do that if you don't like it, don't look at it

The best is to delete those videas and he will know that you have found them, you may not have to confront him at all.

Haha, 13 is still young to know this, just delete it and tell your brother that you deleted something in the computer by careless, and ask him is that important, see his reaction! He will never do this again I think.

well,it is normal i think,just be calm and tell ur brother u know that what u see.