Are we always polite and gentle to our partner?

yeh i tlak politely but when i get angry i really go mad at them and shout and talk any thing which comes in ym mind later on i am the sufferer as i have to say sorry and apologise for the same. Yeh i still have the same feelings and i continue to pamper but get annoyed as well at certain things but thats the things are as i cant be a saint and be very goody goody types which i am not.

I am very polite by nature. Maybe it's unusual, but I never tend to lose my temper. Why would I wish to upset my partner? Sometimes she can be frustrating, for sure, I am sure she feels the same way about me too. We have a half hour "time-out" period every day, when we discuss calmly anything that might come between us and then we can move on from it. Works for us ;-)

Hi annettenasser! My husband and I are married for 7 years now and before that we are a steady couple for 12 years. So, that would be 19 years of being together. I do get annoyed at him and so is he. Our relationship is not perfect but we learn to just accept our flaws and faults, or if we can't accept we just ignore them. LOL! However, we do get annoyed at each other sometimes but one thing that we usually do when we get to lose our temper is try to give each other space and some time alone..especially when one got so rude or so blunt with his remarks. We let things cool down before we talk and try to settle whatever irked the other. I guess, that works for us because we never get to really have big fights. After that we just laughed about it and be back at each others' arms. lol! Take care and have a nice day.