I'm sad...=(

It's hard to know what to really tell you since I don't know your situation but I know from experience that it works the same in reverse as well. If he's knowingly lead you on then there isn't much you can do but just move on and try not to let it get you down, remember that even though it seems like you have just lost the best opportunity to be happy in your life there are many other guys out there. I think one of the common problems I have seen (at least on here and yahoo answers) is people (both guys and girls) don't know where they stand and it either ends their relationship because of it or causes them both more then enough grief. In future a good idea might be to ask if you think the person you like might not return your feelings. Also remember that life is all about learning these things as well as how to determine when someone likes you and how to deal with breaking up so if this is one of your first relationships don't let it get you down, put it down to a learning experience for next time.

Love is a very powerful thing, and if you mess it up, you're gonna have some side effects. So be really careful, and one thing I like to say is, don't assume things and believe it all the time. For example, you assumed that he likes you but in reality, he apparently doesn't. Keep that in your mind. And, if you keep thinking of him, things will get worse, I know, because I've done it. So, all you need to do is stay away from him and don't talk to him, because gradually, you will get over it. Another thing, you will have a better guy than this guy in the future. Imagine girls as apples on a tree, if guys are too lazy, they pick the lowest apple to the ground, and these apples are not as good as the apples on the top of the tree, and these apples will make the guys healthy, but not as effective as the top ones. The good guys, who are looking for a healthy apple for a long time, will pick the apple from the top, and they are hard to get. However, not a lot of guys pick the apples on the top. What I'm trying to say is, just be patient, and at the right time with a right guy, you will be the happiest girl ever! Hope you understand what I'm trying to say. (myLot does improve our language!)

Since you do not know what your-self is, you can not express self as yours. He, being in the same situation (making him NOT a man), is not a man. Knowing what is real is not intended to make you unsad, just give you a path to take.

we've all been there, in that situation. best wishes and good luck

I'm not really sure why, but as a guy I think that they're used to doing this to prove something about themselves and others. It's like they need a boost on their MACHO ego, to prove to their friends that they are better than the other as they look at it as competition(?). I remember the saying, "collect and collect then select." Maybe this is one of their reasons, they want to be sure first that they keep a wide collection of girls since they themselves lack trust in their own capabilities. For me, I am not like them and for sure is a "one woman man" type of guy. I have to keep every step on at a time, since I am sure that I can't keep up with my relationship if I ever I'll be having more than one.

Don't be sad Mae For as you are sharing your story in mylot, I'm sure that many will come to your aid. There are aso others who might want to spend some time with you. Do not be angry to those people who have done you wrong, as Albert Einstein will say "their is an opportunity in every difficulty" Thanks for asking. Please add me as your friend

Hello mae!!!c",) welcome to mylot! I do understand what you feel, i know, i've been there... at a young age i know it's normal and i guess most girls do feel that at some point of their lives. I think you're not stupid at all.... You know girl, you are still very young and you have a lot to learn. Right now you are just learning and never ignore these things and it's all a part of growing up. I know it hurts but we have to accept the fact that he's not for you. You are damn beautiful, young and a lot more guys will come your way. Hope next time these happens, you are wiser.lol have fun and take it easy!!! Good luck and take care always. c",)

Every one have equal right to love a people,and love is a strange tings.It is sometime out of our control.Love one guy isn't wrong.I want to say :"the lost thing is not the really good thing,and only what we have is the best thing."So don't cry,the best guy ,with the true love for you, is waiting for you .well,you will meet him in someplce.

dun worry... soon or later it will just fine... stay "ShInE"..and CcheeerR! =)

It's okay!Just a boi that seems very charming,be yourself,someday someone that have been wating you will get you.= =!

Every one have equal right to love a people,and love is a strange tings.It is sometime out of our control.Love one guy isn't wrong.I want to say:"the lost thing is not the really good thing,and only what we have is the best thing."So don't cry,the best guy,with the true love for you, is waiting for you .well,you will meet him in someplce.