How have you been continuing loving someone honestly when love isn't returned?

i think so. in this life, i felt i really fall in love with someone. i just felt that he was my soulmate and every memories with him make me longing him. but eventhough i know he was my soulmate, i dont think that i can be with him. too many things should be adjust. and too many things being sacrificed. i was willing to do it but not in his side, then how could we being together? it was hurting me much when i realized those condition. but what can i do? it would be his choice and he was the man who should be struugle to his love not me, right? sometimes, i want to contact him and telling him how much i love him (although my feeling getting hurt by him), how much i longing moment be with him. but i realize thats only sweet dream that can be true. i m sad about this but not too much anymore. i have someone who loving me much at now. although i m not too love with this person, i felt so bless can be with him not with my soulmate

Well, I'm willing to court a girl for a long time, but I think there has to be a limit -- a point in which I have to say "hey, if you don't love me I have to move on." Anyway we wouldn't be happy together if I'm the only one in love. Better to set ourselves free. There are many women out there so I won't waste my life on someone who doesn't love me.

i think so. in this life, i felt i really fall in love with someone. i just felt that he was my soulmate and every memories with him make me longing him. but eventhough i know he was my soulmate, i dont think that i can be with him. too many things should be adjust. and too many things being sacrificed. i was willing to do it but not in his side, then how could we being together? it was hurting me much when i realized those condition. but what can i do? it would be his choice and he was the man who should be struugle to his love not me, right? sometimes, i want to contact him and telling him how much i love him (although my feeling getting hurt by him), how much i longing moment be with him. but i realize thats only sweet dream that can be true. i m sad about this but not too much anymore. i have someone who loving me much at now. although i m not too love with this person, i felt so bless can be with him not with my soulmate

I'm not sure what degree of love you're talking about here, so please correct me if I'm wrong.. For me, I have to be more realistic and be considerate. If the person doesn't love me, but I keep and continue on loving her then it seems that I am making love on a brick wall. Love and be loved, that is how I view life and relationship. I think I have lots of positive things to yearn into, than waste it on someone which is obviously not loving me in reutrn. Besides, there are lots of people out there who deserves my heart the same as I deserve them.

i guess if that love is pure.... you get to cope up with the same.... your strength is that same love....

yes,love is very beautiful.but it,like a sword.will damage you,too.in the world nothing is belonged to you.we only own ourselves.it is true when the lover loved you .and it is also true you are not be loved.receive it.hold strong. we cannot force others to continue to love us.that isnot equal to others.they have the right,as ours,not to love me,as we love them.