what do you think of divoring??
By xuzhenzu
@xuzhenzu (32)
China
1 response
@Ciniful (1587)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
I think you mean 'divorcing'? At least I hope that's what you mean, because that's how I'm going to answer this, lol.
I think it's unfortunate, but sometimes necessary. I also think that if people took more time preparing for marriage, and ensuring they're making the right decision by not rushing into it, AND by committing themselves to work through their problems, that it wouldn't be anywhere near as common.
A lot of the problem tends to be that a lot of people don't understand that marriage is work .. and hard work. A successful marriage takes sacrifice, compromise and a constant willingness to put someone elses needs before your own. So many people go into marriage not understanding, or not willing, to carry through with the work involved. It's not all a walk in the park. If a persona isn't willing to work through the little stuff, then it leads to the bigger things that will eventually lead you towards divorce.