who take in charge in your family? you or your wife?

@hyzz1982 (1040)
China
November 12, 2007 7:42am CST
who take in charge in your family, i meant who has more power. it is you or your wife make the decision. when you get salary every month, you will give it to your wife? or she will give the salay to you. if you have not get marry, who was in charge in your family, your father or your mother? in my family, my mother does so. she is the president of my family. :D
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@Fannylao (124)
• China
18 Nov 07
I like SSH123'response.Everyn in the family is equal and we should be of division of labor.I like this way , hoping my boy friend or future husband will do like SSH123.
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
19 Nov 07
OMG, you are a girl. i have a same wish with you. i wish my girlfriend and my futrre wife will give me a equal right.
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
19 Nov 07
are you sure? i am not sure. i wish so.
@Fannylao (124)
• China
19 Nov 07
You are a great boy and I'm sure she will!
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@Fannylao (124)
• China
18 Nov 07
I disagree with you .I think people who takes in charge in a family doesn't mean he or she has more power ,instead the members in family trust and love him or her.If they love everyone ,they don't mind who is the president in their family.And I think if you love your wife you will let her decide everything ,won't you?
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
19 Nov 07
you said "if you love your wife you will let her decide every thing". as you said, you love her, she takes in charge. she takes in charge, is that mean she doesn't love you?
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
19 Nov 07
sorry. maybe i am wrong.
@Fannylao (124)
• China
19 Nov 07
Oh ,my god! You confuse me!I don't mean that!I only mean the love is the most important for people in a family and they never mind who take in charge in the family if they love each other.You mistake my meaning.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
13 Nov 07
We have devided our areas of operations. I take her to supermarket, she buys. I take my son to school, she readies him. She collects the garbage puts in a bag, I put keep the garbage bag on roadside. It is a joint venture. It is like a typewriter. If one key is broken, one cannot type a letter.
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
13 Nov 07
like my family. my father,my brother and i do the heavy work, while my mother and my sister do the tiny work.
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@limcyjain (3516)
• India
12 Nov 07
We both work but my husband too hands over his salary to me when he receives so rather we do invest in stocks and that too he does in my name and tries to make the best of the income in my account so that i have a good cash under my name in the end. So i would have to admit that i am the boss when it comes to control of money. He trust me with most of the buying decisions too.
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
13 Nov 07
you have a so happy family. your hubby must love you very much. you are such a luck lady. thank you for response. best wishes to you. good luck to your hubby and you.
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
18 Nov 07
Well both of us in different manner manage our family. When it comes to house and budgeting, I am the one in charge... and when it comes to family and financial he is the one in charge. Though most of the time we consult each other for the things that we would do... I believe that it is important that you consult each other.
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
19 Nov 07
it is good model of a family. you must live a happy life. thank you very much.
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• New Zealand
13 Nov 07
In our home, my husband and I are both in charge for the financial task and disciplining our child. We only have 1 account and it is a joint account. We both make the decisions and responsible for everything.
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
13 Nov 07
that's good. seldom do like you. i think i will give a suggestion to my mother. thank you.
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@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
13 Nov 07
i think she will.
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• New Zealand
13 Nov 07
Hope this will help your mom..=)
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@boghdady (141)
• Egypt
19 Nov 07
Hi, hyzz1982 ... In our arab society, often the husband has the absolute POWER .. Regards
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
19 Nov 07
i have heard about that.
• China
19 Nov 07
Well, in my family, my mother and my father both take in charge, of course my father takes in charge more. Although I have not got married,I deem that's a easy question for me.I have a plan that my wife and I both take in charge in our own unborn nest.
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
19 Nov 07
on the opposition, i think my futre-wife will take in charge in my future-family.
19 Nov 07
i don't know how to say. others think i am the boss in my family,maybe just because of my bad temper.but in fact,every thing i would consider the advice of my husband,most of affairs is determined by him. we use our money in my account of his.we don't need hand over ours to each other.
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
19 Nov 07
? in my family , my mother takes in charege. but my sister,my brother and i all scare of my father. i always said my mother is a prime minister and my father is a national defence minister. but they both love us more than love themselves.
@Fannylao (124)
• China
20 Nov 07
You really asked her? Oh my god!But I think you will be willing to do that if you love her very much,right?
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
21 Nov 07
yeah. i asked her. haha. we should make a decision. thank you fanny.