What should this boy do?

@thefuture (1749)
Nigeria
November 12, 2007 9:11am CST
Hi friends! A boy said "i really like a girl in my class and always wanted to talk to her but neva got an opportunity....for the past few weeks she has been sitting next to me but we neva talked.....so i was thinking next time she walks by my desk ill kinda block the way and say something like.....there is a toll for crossing thru here......what do u guys think of it as an ice breaker.....if you think its not appropriate then plz recommend what shall i do". I adviced the boy to pray to God and try to discover if she is the perfect one for him. I also advised him to ask himself questions like; "does I truely love her?". How would you advise him? Thanks in advance.
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5 responses
hyzz1982
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
12 Nov 07
just go and tell her. come on. be brave! just think you are not the best in the world but you are the right one to fit for her. there is no reason but the god creat you to know her, and the god creat her to accept you. just do it!
thefuture
@thefuture (1749)
• Nigeria
14 Nov 07
Hi hyzz! that was a good advise there. I really want to let you know that I appreciate your response. Have a great day.
garnet80
@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
28 Nov 07
Just tell her how you feel. It's a nice line but a lot of people don't go for lines. Just be yourself that's the best thing.
stella1989
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
15 Nov 07
Oh... telling some girl that she needs to fill the toll before passing a desk...is plain "RUDE"..!! Me being a girl would seriously find that rude..! Well but honestly I don't know much about these ice breakers..!! As I never get that nervous while talking to other people including those I have my crush on!! I straight away go and say "hi"..!! If he reponses well then good if he not better move ahead of him..lol Some usual formula is go to her with some kind of maths problem asking her to help you..!! it could be good start. Or you can borrow her pencil, or you can ask her for her notes and then you have plenty of discussions with her like.. over her notes itself.. or it may about her writing and many more..!! :)
subathra
@subathra (3519)
• India
13 Nov 07
There are so many ways for the boy to open up the talk with that girl..he can greet her in the morning with a smile which can be a opener to their friendship to blossom into love..
wseayuan
@wseayuan (372)
• China
13 Nov 07
I think he should be brave to talk to that girl and tell his feeling about her.maybe he is shy to talk her ,but if he like her ,he should express to her ,or he will be repentant in the future.and lose a good girl.
JowJie
@JowJie (271)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
hmn i wonder how old he is? :) he's a shy kid i guess, i think i'll just tell him to start by saying "hi!", since she is sitting next to him. offer some candies or food, or just strike a plain conversation, like "how's your assignment?", "do you know how to answer this...", or "what was our lesson yesterday? i cant seem to remember"...something like that. he doesnt have to act fresh, just act natural. saying something like "there is a toll for crossing here", might be taken by her as harsh words...she might even step on his feet :)