LOVE is blind???

Since the birth of man and woman love is in existence. It is the lovers who are blind - some due to lack of knowledge, others due to their idiosyncracies, some due to jealous, some due to habits developed which die hard - love suffers. It is not that Love is blind, it the loveers who are blind.

I do not think love is blind. I do think love is forgiving and understanding. When love is blind it usually means that the love is one sided. I think if you turn a blind eye to your loved ones faults you are setting your relationship up for failure. Love is understanding that we all have faults. Love is forgiving our partners faults. Love is a two way street not a blind road traveling too close to the cliffs edge. I love my husband and we have been married for over twenty years. He will tell you what my faults are and I can tell you his. However, we accept each other for those faults. Any good relationship is give and take. My husband smokes I do not. I do not try to make him quit but he doesn't smoke around me. I love steamed crabs and my husband doesn't like the smell but he puts up with it because he loves me and knows I love crabs. We discuss major purchases to cut down on fights. Love is not really blind just understanding.

Sometimes i beleive that is true such as some women or men can ignore the facts that would tell them they are being cheated on yet they turn a blind eye in order to save them from the heart ache it would cause for them to know and have to break it off.