poor kids

It's part of nature. The question is are we doing the right thing by not punishing kid? Other contradiction question goes with when we let them off, how about kids psychology growth awareness when they are facing a problem on their journey of life. We are leaving in a society where the rules was made to be bound. Question is does the rule reflect the perfection of its details? We don't know either, because the rules were pioneered from thousands years ago of human life experience, and suit to which is proper and which is not proper based on which culture and which community life style. Comparing to the old life, where it involved the physical punishments from parent to kids (more precise it's Older to Younger), it's a bad effect as for nowadays perspective, but proven works the best result on the other side. That old-fashioned kids had learned much patience, they knew what is the value of pain and struggle more directly, they knew there are limits that should not be involved too much. Their quick maturities fitted their era, and proven the survival of their pain-struggle-for-the-best part is proven better then nowadays kids generation. But of course at the other side, they grown another disadvantages psychological emotions like avenge, revenge, the small sample is the mother-in-law vs daughter-in-law, where this aura is still experienced by some family who lived in one home with some old-fashioned member inside who hold tight their traditions. We can't stop this, neither we had tried hard for struggling it. The elder emotions mostly was formed and created inside him/her, after what he/she had encountered since childhood where he/she was facing the same method from their parent. Because when we change one role, we might think it will be better. Indirectly, the new phase at other side begun to create another pressure that was never appeared in the old phase. The rule of Balance is always the law, if you had started to change something, aware of new things to be appeared on the progress. Look at nowadays generation, now we can see those new bad factors that is never appeared on our generation or oldest one, but appeared on nowadays of their era.