do you agree that women always regard relationship as the most important thing ?
By wendy805
@wendy805 (261)
China
November 12, 2007 9:12pm CST
women think relationships, family more important than anything else. women are less capable of leaving her partner and family phsychologically.not because women can't do that, but they reluctant from their heart. at least they are less reluctant than men,if i can say so. do you agree me ?
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16 responses
@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
13 Nov 07
I think it all depends on the family structure that the woman was raised in. There are women who feel the relationship is the most important thing, but there are also many that feel they want to be free to flit from place to place without attachments as well. There are also men that hold the relationship as sacred and it would be harder for them to leave, as well as those which a relationship is less important. It all depends on what the person values in life, and that comes from the way a person is raised as a child and teenager.
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@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
i agree with you but this doesnt apply to every woman. i have four kids and now is a single mom. we left my husband 6 years ago because he is very abussive, he hits me nad my children. for me the most important is my children.... so i will never abandon them nor live tham behind. i've seen and known some women who proclaims loves their kids but can satnd to laeve their husbands and kids. i can leave my husband but cant leave my children behind.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
thank you for your kind words. i am proud of what i did and what im doing. now me and my children lives in a small but peaceful house.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
17 Nov 07
MOST if not all... There is always an exception in everything... some woman thinks differently... some woman are the cause of failed marriage. Though we could say that it is more common with men... but not all. i believe that they way we believe, the way we are raised, our environment have great contribution by the way we carry and decide for ourselves...
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
Well, in my present situation that's not the case. It seems I am a very small part of her life. She values her friends more than she values me. Maybe she's just not that into me. I bet if I were cute she'd be head over heels in love with me.
@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
Yes, with high regard, I agree.
Women when they have given their commitment, they value it no matter the consequence. That makes them put the relationship an important thing. One thing more, they respect their decision and their choice. Women respect what they have decided and can put to it no matter th consequence. That makes me proud of my mom. It isn't the situation, it is the love the makes one work for the situation.
Enjoy posting fellows!
@yanlily08 (63)
• China
13 Nov 07
I do not think so, it, to some extent, depend on which kind of life you would like to be. I have to admit a lot of women around me take relationship as the most important part in their lives. They hope to have a good relationship in which they would feel secure and happy. I am just like this kind of persons.
However, I also know more and more independ women do not take seriously about relationship. We think the most important thing is their own-fulfilling. I really admire such kind of women.
They are my points of view.DO you agree?
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
13 Nov 07
Well now, relationships are very important, but I would not regard it is the most important thing. Knowing who you are first, and knowing what you can do, your priorities, come before most relationships. Women should do what they know to be right first.
@keminem001 (779)
• Saint Lucia
13 Nov 07
DEFINITELY! women have a tendancy to put relationships first in their life. i don't know why.
all i know is god should be first, then everything comes after.
thank you
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
13 Nov 07
This is a stereotype, but stereotypes come from somewhere. Most women are more focused on relationships then men, but be careful saying anything about ALL women. No group of people ever ALL do something.
@infoguy (210)
• India
13 Nov 07
I do accept with you that women are more attached to relationships but let me also tell u as science is full of exemptions so is woman.There are women who are very attached to family nothing to more important than that to them and they are ready to sacrifice anything for their family...But there are few others who really do not care about their families and respect their views and way of living...they can break up and relation and live independently...both are two different extremes.It totally depends on the environment she is brought up and depends on family situations.
@akacipher (64)
• India
13 Nov 07
after wahtever i have seen in life all i can say is THIS IS ALL CRAP!!! ITS NOT TRUE...........
@fanji008 (775)
• China
13 Nov 07
Hi,there! I do think it really depends. Not every woman is the same.As far as I know,some women are so independent that they don't think having a family is too important for them.But other women really pay most attention to their families and take that as the most important part in life.They really like devoting themselves to her husband and the kids. It's somehow hard to compare the ratio in men with the ratio in women cause there're also some men who are delicating themselves to the family. But maybe generally speaking,women emphasized that more than men.
@marissa0124 (179)
• New Zealand
14 Nov 07
I might agree with you but it really depends to a person. Some women give more importance to her family and career other than relationship. It will also depends on her disposition in life. This will vary in every women..=)
@bstarun2007 (72)
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13 Nov 07
Yes.I also agree because first woman depaned and related with relation. 1.she is a daughter.2. sister 3.wife.4.mother. 5.sister in law. these relalation blood relation&heart relation .phsychologicallywoman depand to the men .he is husband &father she loves them all.
@wseayuan (372)
• China
13 Nov 07
Generally, i agree with you.i know many women pay attention to her patner and her family.they are always sticking to her lover and relationship.but most men are not .i sometimes hear that the women want to marry a good man ,find her true love.