BAD BREATH, How do you tell them?
By menctomas
@menctomas (278)
Philippines
November 13, 2007 2:48am CST
I know that it is really a taboo subject between the "smeller" and the "smellee" but joking aside, how do you tell someone that they have bad breath. it is really not out of spite that you want to tell, but so that something can be done. i have a really bad time with this because i really don't want to hurt this persons feelings but when he talks, i really don't breath because his breath honestly stinks. you can smell him a mile away!!! not a joke or something i am making up. they say that if your breath smell that bad, there is something wrong with your insides, like you're sick of something. any advice? and yeah, i've tried giving him gum before. it didn't work!!!
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@zigzagbuddha (4601)
• United States
14 Nov 07
My brother went on a raw garlic binge awhile back. He was putting 8 to 10 cloves of raw garlic in one can of tuna and eating the whole thing. Every day.
The minute he entered a room you knew it. If he talked in your direction it was enough to knock you out. Not telling him was not an option.
My family members and close friends I would tell if it was making me uncomfortable having to smell it, but I don't think I would tell that to somebody who was just an acquaintance because I wouldn't want them to take it personally and be embarrassed.
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@menctomas (278)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
hi zigzag. 10 gloves of garlic!!! WHY ON EARTH???!!! i think your brother went a bit lunatic then. or maybe he suspected someone was a vampire that's why he did it!!! LOL. thanks for your comment. i am pretty sure that i will definitely say something then if someone really stink of garlic. i mean that is really no excuse..
@eden_shii (506)
• Australia
13 Nov 07
i don't know...when i was in college, i have two friends...we are always together...and then, one of my friends has bad breath...my other friend and i had a difficulty on how to tell that friend of ours that she had a bad breath and we just cant stand it...we can't use our body language (that is to cover our nose) because that is too obvious and that might offend her...
so, what me and my other friend did was, we agreed to just take her to the dentist...we went to the dentist together and me and my other friend also went through a dental cleaning...(gee!...we even paid for it)...
then, after wards, the doctor advised our "smellee" friend that her decayed tooth must be pulled...imagine, she even rejected the doctor's advise...so that time, we were unsuccessful...
we still had to go with her (holding our breath because of her smell)...after a few months, me and my friend decided to do another step...we told her, that we will go through the dentist again...we kept on encouraging her to have her tooth pulled...then, finally, she decided to do the procedure...
finally, we were successful...
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@menctomas (278)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
thats good that you were finally successful. but she was a close friend. this person is not close to me though. so the approach is somewhat hard to do. tnx for the advice though. i've picked up something.
@stella1989 (2274)
• India
13 Nov 07
I have this friend of mine in my church choir and we normally share the mike with each other..!!
And in this case bad breath is really awfull thing to get....you can not take your mouth away from the mike either as you have to continue singing until the hymn finishes..!!!
I get damn compelled to tell her about her serious bad breath problem but I am kind of hesitant to that as she may get hurt.
Some times I get her some cardamom to eat in before church by telling her that this will be helpful for her throat to open up fr her singing and some time I casually give her some mouth freshners so that I can stand standing with her.
But now I usually avoid sharing my mike with her any more, cause bad breath and body small are the two things that I can't stand!!!
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@menctomas (278)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
i am sorry you had to endure that. i mean close contact and all. it is really hard. thank goodness you don't have to share a mike anymore!!!
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@qinqin1202 (376)
• China
13 Nov 07
hi, i think my breath stinks too some times. my gf always told that your breath are so smell, get away from me. i dont know how to fix that. so, i tend to speak little to people who will tolerate my smell, i dont want to make other people holding their breath when they have to talk to me. as for me, i think i can take it if someone tells that your breath has smell.
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@menctomas (278)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
thanks for your honesty qinqin... maybe i will just tell him. maybe thats the best way, i'll get him to one side and tell him. he is someone in our office but he is a lot older than me that is why i am having second thoughts of just telling him...
@prettyhanan (694)
• Malaysia
13 Nov 07
Hello..
I will react to them by my body language, I will bring my finger to partially close my nose opening. Normally they understand my body language.
There are three(3) sources that course bad breath. From your stomach, tooth decay and tongue infection. For stomach we have to take more alkali food such as green vegetables (or chlorophyll/chlorophyll type of chewing gum). For tooth decay we have to attend dentistry treatment. Finally for tongue, while brushing our teeth we have to brush our top-part-tongue.
**prettyhanan**
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@menctomas (278)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
ahhh, tnx for the advice prettyhanan. but do you think they'll be offended if i just cover my nose? well, maybe they'll get the idea that way.. gud day.
@miracleworld (201)
• India
13 Nov 07
u just tell them....if ur a good friend....some times people do feel offended...but say it in a friendly manner....to point out that it is done for their own good..
Regards
Harry
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@BayleighGray (4334)
• United States
14 Nov 07
Hi Menctomas,
Sometimes this is a medical condition, but most times I think its just the fact that a person has failed to scrape all the germs and build up off their tongues. Thats where most bad breathe comes from.
I offer someone a mint, if its not someone that I dont have to deal with all the time, perhaps someone random, I dont say anything. If its someone close to me, like hubby or friends, family, I will tell them in a funny way and we laugh about it.
Maybe you can mention the tongue brushing thing somehow. I have been exposed to someone like this, and yeah its pretty bad when your sitting behind someone and you can smell their breath as they talk. Ive had that happen to me. lol
Bay Lay Gray xx
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@Cocoa33 (921)
• United States
14 Nov 07
U know U could give em a breath mint, or give em a stick of gum that has mint in it. If they don't catch the hint.U could try the direct approach, and tell them their breathe stinks. They need to do something about it, like brush their teeth, use mouth wash.
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@amer_saleh24 (13)
• Jordan
13 Nov 07
hello
i think its impotant to be clear that no one know if he have abad breath so some pepole when you tell him the true
he maybe take your advise and use some thing to help him self but the other he will hate you for your honest
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@brittany259 (4)
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13 Nov 07
I think that you should ask him when was the last time he went to the dentist because he could have gingivitis or something, that causes bad breath. Maybe you should make sure he brushes his teeth and rinses with mouthwash, and afterwards eats peppermints all day.
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@gmann_2008 (9)
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14 Nov 07
Well i dont tell them rude but if their a good friend i let them know and i am a goofy person so i pull them to the side or bump them on their shoulder and give them sign language about their breath. If you are a good friend, they would appreciate that you don't want them walking around talking to people in their faces and their breath smells.