following others

it is always not true that we have to do what others do. if others jump into pit would you do the same, no. you have to think that if you do that would it help you or not, if what others do is good then you can do it. choosing a good friend is very important.you can know whether the friend you have chosen is good or bad by observing his actions, the advise he gives to you. when you have problem you should talk with your friends listen to them what they have to say about it, then analyse whether the information is helpful to you or may lead you into trouble. the final judge to take the decision should be you.