confused

i guess that is y love is called as an sweet poison.when u r intoxicated by love then nothing else exists infront of it.however all u written is completely true.in such a situation,neither the irl is wrong nor the guy is wrong.thats y people say that if one falls in love then he or she sud convey the same to the other person as soon as possible.if at the first instance the other person says that he does love her,then its still possible for her to get out of it.the more one prolongs the more complicated becomes the issue.further its not at the guys fault,since he was ont knowing of the girls emotion,might he if he wud b having the same feeling bt he is not reciprocating,as did the girl.so its better to confess the love,rather than to die inside.however nobody can stop anyone frm loving others.n its true that just a smile is wat matters.

i guess thats the most painful thing when it comes to love... but still...find a way to forget that person... move on and you will surely find someone who will love you the way you loved that person...

I think you must know everything about the one whom you loves before you commit yourself in your relationship.i tell this from my personal experience where for six years i trusted a girl and then she cheated me and went away.i dont want anyone to have this situation ever in their life.also you must know if you can live together .this is very important because people say love is blind and when you are blind there are high chances that you fall down and develop serious bruises.once everything is fine then just move on with your love and god will be with you.

that is a heart wrenching and painful story. You are living in a dream world.

in love it is necessary to sacrifice but i think love can make you crazy so if you love that person its ok to sacrifice but i believe that we got to use our brains too... tsktsk!!!

If you love someone, you have to be patient. You should also endure everything for her/him.I do. I sacrifice. and I wait for her... till eternity.

its the part of love. But in practical sense you must let the person know taht you love him. If he does not know and also does not feel the same like you, how is he going to react? There are chances that he don't accept your love. But it is also no solution. This is the love taht hurts you so much. May be thats why its so painful sometime.

I think the girl shouldnt have wasted time in expressing her feelings..May be the guy must have same feelings but he didnt express her..I can understand what the girl is going through as even i have been in that situation and you feel like killing yourself because of that pain..

The value of to reveal dark side of love. Brave or fear to outcome it. Most Venusian had faced this part, accumulating it and find the way that it is almost impossible to tell it out. But under one circumstance, it will explode like no edge. She is in the mid of Venusian well, dark and don't know what is inside the feeling. Talk it out all inside her feelings. Now pure Martian part take it as an insult, as if He is the one to be blamed because of this. The part is going bitter when the Venusian feels He Is not Listening. Martian denied that he Hear, and he can Rewind what just she said. Venusian is still saying He is not Listening. Then the insult in Martian thought making the big war took place. Venusian is much expected to Ask, to Demand, which is contradiction to their way. But that's how Martian is helping each other. In other scenario because of Need to Ask before helping, when the Venusian make the offering, he thought it was a great insult for him (Not Listening Part), which is contradiction to Martian way. Now back to your story, first you will need a self-introspection. Before judge on others, you need to judge yourself whether it's worthy so to give a value for others. You need to talk this out with your partner after your meditation on the introspection had taken place (aka you had self prepared inside) to accept any outcome of the conversation. Keeping the feeling inside is very dangerous for your health condition, as it will be a time-bomb lately. ______________________________________________________________ Men From Mars, Women From Venus (John Gray Ph.D.)

you can remeber this passage :quit sometimes is a good choice .everyone only has just one life ,we shoud appreciate it than other thinfs