How Do You Deal With An Irritating Person?!

My advice to you would be to blow him/her off and deal with your own business. A person like that thrives on the fact that they can p1ss you off, well don't let them, rise above them. I have been called many a things in my life and it use to p1ss me off to no end until I realized they were just words and words can never hurt me. Be better than those that persecute you and let them waste their time not your's! Have a great day!!

If I was you.. I would only ignore him.. I think with time he'll know that you don't give a damn... is not this your quote?? Regarding the bad things he said about you, I think all he did was showing how stupid he is because if he really knew you he wouldn't say such a thing about you... so just ignore him and people who know you won't pay attention to him :)

Hello silver_shaddow, How are you. I am really very angry at this sick person who has become pain in your neck........this person is actually mentally sick, and you should not get angry at sick people but have pity on them. He seems to be unconfident in life and wants to draw attention, no matter through which means. The best thing is to ignore him as if he does not exist for you. Don't even read what he writes about you. Treat him like a street dog who keeps on barking, and one day this barking will stop.......the aim of this person is to make you angry and you are making him happy by getting irritated by him. You should keep cool and ignore him.......that will make him feel helpless and frustrated. Everybody knows you now on mylot and nobody is going to belive some insane sick person and his strange behaviour. You know I think what all he wrote for you is actually something that was written about this sick person and now he takes out is frustration here and there. So dear friend just ignore this unhealthy dish and enjoy with your other good friends here on mylot.

Oh boy, okey there are four major steps: 1) You can post an apporpriate answer without lowering yourself to his level. Just a few lines that would expose him to others and to himself. Strong response but with quality. If u want 2 drive him crazy, just don't use bad language, don't call names. Be aware that this step can be done once or twice. And be careful not to slide into what he wants 2 take u, he may want 2 drag you into some lengthy fight before all other forum participants, don'tdo that, just once or twice enough. 2) Report him to whom looking after the forum, they may suspend him for a while. 3) If he continued posting bad notes, just ignore him, just leave him there as if he talking to himself. Don't even comment on his words. Believe me my friend, his words show what kind of person he is, people aren't stupid, they'll figure it out sooner that what you think. Good Luck my Dearest Friend.

:)...a person who talk like that is born pathetic, tell him that that and also that he a waste of 5perm, anyway . just chill Regards Harry

Oh and I forgot to answer the question... How do I deal with it? Like most of the people said in this discussion, ignore the person. I don't stoop down to their level. It's very degrading and pretty much like kindergarten (I like the term kindergarten, it's used a lot at my workplace ;-D it's up to you how you would put that into context).

You know what, if I based everything from your statement, that guy is such a looser. The reason he's still after you is because there's something about you that he doesn't have. It's not because he doesn't like you. It's because he's very much insecure. I agree to meeandnotyou, life has it's way of turning the wheel. There's a common saying that what a person sow he will also reap. As for those friends, do you really think these people who would judge you according to what others would say about you without looking at both sides of the situation are friends indeed? As far as I know, my friends will stand up for me no matter what as long as I'm on the right side.