Crazy Over Someone

Philippines
November 14, 2007 4:28am CST
Hi! Have you ever experienced going so loco over someone you want to be with perhaps your lifetime crush? Have you ever weeped over someone for long sleepless night bearing the pain that he/she doesn't love in return? Well, I once had a friend who really was so so so so so so crazy over someone. This friend of mine actually had a mutual understanding with her admirer but one time, they broke up and this made my friend gone wild 'til now. Whenever we talk about it, she cries so hard that she almost cut her wrist. That's why I always comfort her and make sure she's fine but she still couldn't get over it. Could someone out there tell me something about it so that I may advise my friend?
8 responses
ebtenorio
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
I have been crazy over someone but then not to the point of wasting my life. You know, these things are part of life: Failure and success. We could only be in either of the two but not both. If they aren't meant together, just accept the fact (talk to myself). Who know, they are really meant for each other in the far (if not near) future. Make the most out of our lives coz its too precious... instead of wasting it. Be strong, and never let disappointment get in the way. Just be optimistic. That is what I do. One thing more: PRAY.
cuteclavs
@cuteclavs (109)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
Yes you're right. But, she still couldn't accept the fact that the guy doesn't love her anymore.
ebtenorio
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
Well then... I do know what to do if that is the case.. Convince her to accept things as they were. :D
cuteclavs
@cuteclavs (109)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
ok
tryxiness
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
Ahmm. Tell bluntly to your friend that her/his MU has moved on and perhaps has a life of his or her own, and the MU does not dwell on his or her. I hope your friend will wake up from the deep sleep. :)
cuteclavs
@cuteclavs (109)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
Yes, I do hope so
subha12
@subha12 (18441)
• India
28 Apr 08
no i am not like that. the case you have described here is called obsession. its hapeenes to some . but it is the extreme case. in that case she is doing her own damage.
Modestah
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
28 Apr 08
if she is willing to take her life maybe you can help your friend by finding a good counselor or psychiatrist experienced in such obsessions.
kittypinky
@kittypinky (245)
• China
14 Nov 07
I did it ! I love him so much ,and I told my parents that he is the one I want to marry,and I was really crazy over him .But,yes,as your friend's case, we broke up 'cause ```` no,I still don't know 'cause what. And I think I still love him very much now ,once he come back ,I'll be happy to accept him again.
cuteclavs
@cuteclavs (109)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
You really sound like my friend does. She's now really waiting for something she know won't come back anymore. But, we shouldn't let this be a matter for us to expect another one better. :)
zhongpei
@zhongpei (10)
• China
14 Nov 07
I think you can show her a movie named Legally Blonde ,it's a good movie that can make somebody be couraged
cuteclavs
@cuteclavs (109)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
OK...I will :)
sincere4frdship
@sincere4frdship (2228)
• India
28 Apr 08
Yes I am feeling myself crazy for some one these day ... Its not good for me , I know ... But I have nothing to do with that .... thanks !!!
triptadasgupta
@triptadasgupta (900)
• India
18 Apr 08
well friend it would really take some time to be normal because the heartache which love gives is really very difficult.but as the saying goes that time is the best healer and life does go on and on and so I amalso sure that yoor this friend will also overcome this grief but it will definately take a lot of time.