How do you know that you are loved?
By violeta_va
@violeta_va (4831)
Australia
8 responses
@aaidjs (1149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
16 Nov 07
Hello Dear,this is a very hard question!I was thinking about it during last 20 ours!First I am very positive,optimistic and happy person and i love people in general!That way I always feel that people loves me too!!I think if you have a lot of love for give away you will receive some off it!!My friends like to spend time with me,they like to take coffee or lunch in my home!They call me everyday just for see how I am!People on the street and store like to have chat with me!!My children still live with me, that is a good sign that they love me,my hubby is still with me!I have friends from kindergarten!Good sign is that ,I think ,all dogs and cats from my town like to stay in my front-yard!If I cant be sure does people loves me I am sure that dogs and cats loves me!!..lol...Have a nice Day and Regards Silvana
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
16 Nov 07
ok you didnt even have to reply to this as I am sure everyone loves you. It didnt take me long to notice how nice you are and to get to like you a lot. People like you are very rare in this world. I only need to talk to you for few minutes to get your positive energy. All the best
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 07
you are right in general, parents, friends, relatives and our spouse will love us. for me, i will feel to be loved when i had sorrow or sadness in my life, they are there to help me out those situation. they are there to give me their support. they are there and never leave me whatever my condition. when i made any mistake, they will give their forgiveness to me after their upset or angry. thats i will be felt loved by them. coz its easily to find someone who will be with us but its little difficult to find someone who will be with us when we are in miserable condition
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
16 Nov 07
you are so right you can tell who loves you by how they act when your life is not going well.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
14 Nov 07
You really need to be a master in love to know if someone really has a feeling for you.if shecallyou regularly more than once aday or if sends you messages of love,she is in love with you.if she gets agitated when you are with some other girl,when she feels bad when you are not talking to her and when she regularly looks at your eyes,believe me my friend she has a feeling for you.now again if she says she miss you and if she loves sitting with you all the time,she has been hit by cupid's arrow.now let me warn you too ,if at all a girl you met recently comes to you and say that she loves you,dont be always sure of what shesaid,this is not my discovery,this is what human psychology is all about.
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
I ment in more general way but thanks it is very informative post. I will tell you what I ment. My nephew (13 years old) sleepwalks but when he was about 3-4 he didnt sleep walk but would have conversations at night that he never knew he had in the morning it was all unconcius talk. So one night he was about 4 he came over to sleep in our house and slept in my bed. I was reading a book and he was deep asleep at one point he started saying something I said "what" and he said "tete (which is aunty) I love you". Thats How I know that he loves me because even in his sleep he said that.
@Aussies2007 (5336)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
For me... it is mostly about the everyday little things that we take for granted.
My girlfriend bringing me coffee in bed.
Or taking my hand while we walk... or putting my arm aroung her waist.
It is about when people complimenting you on something.
Or when people offer to help without being asked.
Most of all... it is about people not arguing with you about everything. Nagging is the biggest killer of love.
@saivenkaat802003 (4823)
• India
14 Nov 07
No confusing methods,.. just feel the way the persons around you react to your behaviour..Do they care for you in hard times, try to ease out the problems and willing to shoulder the responsibilites for you..
According to me, affection towards a person must come on its own and it cant be thrusted.
