Do you believe that love is so selfish?

@khateya (263)
Australia
November 15, 2007 12:45am CST
Do you beleve that love is selfish? It sometime make you blind and you seem to take control on your lover.... what do you think?
3 responses
saiwailaozei
@saiwailaozei (363)
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15 Nov 07
i think that sometimes love is indeed selfish while sometimes that is selfless .for instance,when the people you like treat others as good as he or she treat you ,you will feel not good and even angry,which shows love is selfish.but your selfish just means your love to him or her,which will become the motive for you to pay as much as you can for him or her without seeing the price,which display the love's selfless. as for that love makes you blind,i think it's worth failing to see something when you really fall in love as everyone only have one chance to be youth,which cannot be considerde that the act with love is selfish.
saiwailaozei
@saiwailaozei (363)
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16 Nov 07
yes,you are right.so it's important to find a person who think the same way with you while you are looking for someone you like.
khateya
@khateya (263)
• Australia
16 Nov 07
when we love some one with our true heart, we deserve that he or she love use with there true heart too. but we can't guarantee that they will think as what we are thinking.. Thank you
mwala1287
@mwala1287 (284)
• Canada
15 Nov 07
I agree, love does take a tole on most people. but I guess to thinl positively you can really only make the asumption that you really do LOVE that person deeply, being so in control can be a good thing i guess
khateya
@khateya (263)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
Have u experience that experience? ;)
mwala1287
@mwala1287 (284)
• Canada
15 Nov 07
I think so.. I might be going thru that of some sort right now... its a bithard to say. We are are controlling over what is "ours" bcuz it is ours and no one elses. but also you love them and may control what they do OUT of love....................
nkhanna
@nkhanna (922)
• India
15 Nov 07
i dnt think that love is selfish.true love can never b selfisf.love means just tihnking bout ur luv happiness.love definately makes u blind.i thnik its just a mutual understanding.i guess nobody takes contrl on any.its just a momentary feeling
khateya
@khateya (263)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
but u ever feel that jealous when u see ur luv go out with other? It doesn't mean that go out for just a moment, they may go for such a long time that know one know what they have done. i really make you think of something n u many act something wrong in such condition....