A chance to cordially say
By katkat
@katkat (2378)
Philippines
November 15, 2007 3:52am CST
Did you ever wish to say something to your love ones who passed away? Did you ever wish to be given a chance to say something or say goodbye to your love ones before they passed away?
What if we somehow knew that a friend or someone dear to us would soon pass away, what will you say to him/her?
To my love ones who passed away, I would say thank you. I owe to them of what I’ve become. They’ve thought me a lot and one of those is always to be grateful.
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@homebody (24)
• Canada
16 Nov 07
My deepest condolences if you have recently lost a loved one.
You know, the dying process is one of the most unfamiliar and unlearned of all our various processes in life. As a Registered Nurse, I worked the last 7 years of my career in Palliative Care. I cared for men and women who were in their last six weeks to last three months of their lives. Once I learned what I was doing, I was able to help countless number of patients and their families or significant others prepare themselves for the inevitable.
This is a process and if you go through it, you will find the passing the best experience you have had. Don't forget to let the professinals help you. It is not a sign of weakness. You need time just like the patient and others need time. You'll make it and feel good about it.
Hope this helps a little bit. Don't block your feelings; they need to be expressed.
