Will you still pursue to love someone on whom u know you just can’t be together?

Yeah. it happens to me now... but it matters not really.. what matters is that I love her so much that I would risk all, ,even my happiness for her happiness...

primarily, if I would be able to face that hardship..Maybe I should continue loving him because I believe that if you love someone, you are not suppose to be greedy, and if you really love him, if his happy and it would be enough for you to see that his happy with his life evn if you are not the reason...

It would be better if one would simply focus their attention to another person, since loving a person which is not loving you in return is one of the most foolish thing one'll do for the rest of their lives. A relationship is supposed to be a two-way street, both have to give and take as well.

No, I will not pursue it. There are lots of other fishes in the sea and I'm not going to spend my life pursuing something I can't have. IF he's really meant to be with me, maybe someday we'll end up being together, but for the time being, I'll try to forget about him and move on. :-)))

I have experienced that... But I never had the feeling of regret or something bad... I just have to accept it though it really hurts but I believe, time heals and I always say to myself that there's much better ahead rather than this one. :)

Having to love someone does not actually mean that you guys be together. I've been on a similar occassion. But the love that I made with someone and fought for became a futile thing. I've fallen in love to someone else, but I was already on a relationship. I've tried to do my best to pursue that love but never came to materialize. I still love that person although Im right now continuing my relationship with my long time partner. I know that she is also still.

Yes i am currently going through such a situation.i dont say it would end up exactly the same way as you said but has a higher probability.i love a girl who belongs to an orthodox family.we are in stong affair ,but the problem is our castes are different and her family would in no way agree to this relationship.even she says she cant go against her parents.the biggest thing is she says she cant live without me.now you can see the paradox in all these situations and can imagine how would i be feeling in sucha situation.i am really having one of the worst times of my life.hope the things would finally turn well for me.

For me I have given up on love and meeting someone and I don't really want to I always fall for the wrong people anyhow. I have fallen in love with people in the past and had infatuations but they were just lust, nothing more and they were wrong for me and to be honest I am not Leonardo Di Caprio and just plain looking so I know even if I did fancy someone they would never fancy me, which is not a problem for me now.

look this situation has never happened from my side as i can say.But someone felt so as he once told me. I was not at all attracted to him. But he proposed and then told that he has real feelings for me.He even persuded me. But i think i never would feel that way for him.

This happened to me once, though I wasn't in love, but I did think the guy was cute and I was interested in getting to know him (he was a neighbor of mine that I already knew, by name). Apparently though he was not interested in me, but rather my best friend from 1st grade. She had come up to visit when we were teenagers and the boy I liked, liked her instead. She also liked him. Knowing all this, I lost interest in this guy quickly. It was not worth it to me to try and pursue someone that liked someone else.

Yes, I dated a man for 6 years even tho I knew the relationship could only go so far. He did not want kids or any part of them. At the time,l was single and did not want to involve my kids with anyone and so it was perfect. I went into it knowing it wouldn't last forever but determined to cherish each moment that it did. I did not expect it to even last as long as it did. Yes, I was sad when it ended but it was worth every bit of it. We are still good friends and I would not trade a moment of it. He was well worth my tears.

i think the feeling would still be there and i would still continue loving the person in my heart until it fades. but to pursue knowing the odds, i think is quite stubborn.

As for me ,i will fight utmost to change the situation ,but if things don't allow,i will stop pursueing and love him in my heart and keep his good image in my mind.Because when two persons get together ,they will expose their minus to each other and u have to change his image and try u best to love the new one.So why not keep the best image in your mind and leave a good memory for the rest of your life?

U know that the end is so doom. Love that will only just like a dream. It only just can make both of you hurt. so you should try to limite yourself. It will be hard to stop in a sudden so take some time to stay a part from each other so you will be able to stop little by little...

I think sometimes the matter of the heart can not be controlled and sometimes when you have a strong feeling for someone it is like the will to live the body just takes over and I think it is especially so for a woman if she loves someone with such a passion sometimes they just love in silence if they can not be together...

Hi braveheart! If I will be in that kind of situation, I don't think I will pursue the person or be stubborn that we will have a future together. I think I will just be making myself more vulnerable to being hurt. of course, it will be difficult to stop myself from loving him because how can you really stop the feeling when it seems the heart has a mind of its own? nevertheless, I guess I am not the kind of person who can risk everything if I know it will never really work out. Take care and have a nice day. :)

Well , love and cough can not be hidden. Several times I just consider giving up. But you know it's so hard for me. I don't know what to do, she will never love me, she will never get together with me. But I just want to stand by her, keeping her strong. I just want to company her, protect her and comfort.