What is the right manner for our children?

China
November 15, 2007 7:29am CST
Well,according to the Chinese tradiontion,parents always do much things and leave much fortune for their children.Is it right?Nowadays,the competition is more and more fierce.Most of us feel tired and hard to struggle.If our parents can leave much things for us,we can ease more.However,others don't agree with this opinion.We must gain something by our own.But most of us are common,it is hard.My god,what should we do for our children?Where are you come form?What is your opinion?
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goodsign
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 07
Hi happykids. First and foremost an academic education for our kids should take first for their prestigious paper qualification. And the next will be the life education where they have to learn how to smart as they have attained their academic learning status. The smart way is, they have to be creative and innovative and we as parents must fully support with productive moral and manner to their intrepid vision or wish. Retro thinking in this case is no longer accountable as moving forward should take first. HAPPY DAPPY.
happykid5156
@happykid5156 (80)
• China
16 Nov 07
Well said,but some parents can not afford their children to go to university.They are busy to earn money and have no time to teach their children.Then thsi situation,they should earn money or teach their children?And maybe themselve are not well teached.
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goodsign
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 07
that is the parents' weakness (not mistake), don't know how to "pull string" on educational politic system. Must press the HELP button. EXAMPLE;- "When our right hand does not work properly, get help from our left hand to assist our work." HAPPY DAPPY.
lilaclady
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
15 Nov 07
I am from Australia and I think it is nice if you can leave something for your children but today some people these days feel they should live life to the fullest, and their children are grown and live their own lives in their own way. We all get one chance at life as far as we know we should enjoy it to the fullest so I believe people should look after themselves.
happykid5156
@happykid5156 (80)
• China
16 Nov 07
Yeah,i think most foreign friends think liking you.Maybe the chinese people will think liking you!
sweetcakes
@sweetcakes (3504)
• United States
15 Nov 07
Good manners and as well as honesty must begin and teach first at home by parents while children are still young if not they grow up like a “trapo” when they are adult. If parents are power hungry and greedy then their offspring will follow them too.
miaoyu0807
@miaoyu0807 (101)
• China
16 Nov 07
Maybe this is a popular topic nowadays in China.Usually,Chinese parents do many things and leave much fortune for their child.That is right,at least,the parents are not wrong.The key is how their children deal with what their parents give them. Of course,if the parents don't give their children anything, they are not wrong too.In this topic parents are right forever,whether parents give their children a lot or not.However,they love their children,don't they?
hyzz1982
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
16 Nov 07
i am from china. i think as parents we should not give them fish, but teach them how to get fish. never give them too much money, but do teach them how to work, how go do a good job, and how to earn money by themselves. only in this way, they will not be washed off by the times.
purplebaby
@purplebaby (48)
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16 Nov 07
if we could leave more wealth to the next generation,so why not?hard competetion would make them not easy to make a living. sure,the education is a must. we should try our best to afford them till they could take care of themselves. let them learn to study and live on their own.