love the person who doesnt love you?

Philippines
November 16, 2007 6:00am CST
what would you rather choose, continue to love the person who doesnt love you or just give your attention to the person you don't love but that person loves you very much? Although I havent experienced to be placed in a situation like thie, Im just curious as to what people will choose. It's hard that the one you love doesnt love you and what makes it more complicated if someone who loves you but you just can't give back that love to him...
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9 responses
• China
21 Nov 07
If I have no other choice,such as we love each other,then I will choose the person which I don't love but he love me.In fact ,I had made a choice, I chose the latter.now I love him , too.
• Philippines
30 Nov 07
that's good news...
@errielle (442)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
I would still choose to love the person I love, even if he can't give me the same love. I cannot deny it and should not pretend.
• Philippines
30 Nov 07
Wow..I admire you for doin that..But i think it will no be that easy....
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
30 Nov 07
I would have to give a chance to the person i don't love but loves me. I mean you can't sit around and worry because someone doesn't love you. I have found that out myself. It is better to move on with your life.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
21 Nov 07
I was in the second situation some time back. There was somebody who expressed his love for me. But I was not ready to admit it as i did not have any feelings like that for him. I conveyed the same to him and later he told me one day i will feel the same like him. But thanks GOD i declined him as he proved to be a cheat.
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
In loving, sometimes we stubbornly loving someone who doesn't love us in return - because we decided to. If on the very first start we use our mind instead of heart, perhaps it will be much easier to just ignore the person instead of loving. I do experienced loving someone who doesn't love me in return. I end up in misery.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
I will still love that person... like forever... even if she dumped me already good.
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
I am right now in this crazy situation and it's driving me nuts! All these emotions are pulling me in different directions. It's really difficult to make a decision, to choose. But I have made up my mind. I will choose neither. Why would I push myself to someone who doesn't care about me? And why would I force myself to love someone I don't like? Someday I will find the right person to love, who will love me back. I'm still young anyway. I still have lots of time. hehe.^__^
@geot08 (46)
17 Nov 07
This is a tough question that I've thought about before and I think I would rather be loved by someone and not love them back because it would be too painful to love someone that doesn't love you. And I would "love" them for loving me and maybe eventually learn to truly love them.
• United States
19 Nov 07
I would love neither and look elsewhere, but with a heavy heart.