Do you truely love your spouse?
By dbmax41
@dbmax41 (585)
United States
November 16, 2007 7:04am CST
Too many times I hear people say they love their spouse but check up on them to see if they are cheating. Ive heard people say they hate themselves but love their spouse. Well Those two statements mean ( to me) they arent sure. You must trust your spouse to love them. Always checking up on them is a sign of distrust. Even if its in the back of your mind. Ive seen people do crazy things to keep tabs. People also hate themselves but love their spouse? You cant love anyone if you hate yourself. Its just not possible. Think about it. If you hate your self then do you reward yourself with love? Does that make sense? Am I wrong?
4 responses
@ellen546 (110)
• United States
16 Nov 07
Your right to truly love some one you have to love who you are as a person. Sometimes do happen in a marriage and trust is lost, but for the marriage to surive that trust has to be built back quickly. I trust my husband as he's gone from home a lot with different acatives, but I love and trust him with all my heart because I know I can trust him.
@islandrose (686)
• Philippines
16 Nov 07
You're right, always checking your mate is a sign of distrust. Trust is an ingredient of true love. Love begets love, I hope this to happen to all men.
@paintwet (165)
• China
16 Nov 07
i dont think so.
i trust my wife.but some time i check up on her is just want to validate mysely,to validate my trust is true.
and it is always show she is love me,after i check up on her.
in the other hand she can check up on me too,and i believe what i do is truely love her.
