shuold own concern pour out to the friend

I don't believe in telling anyone everything, I think it is ok to talk to friends but to keep the most personal things to yourself, as I have learnt friends can be great but sometimes if friendships become stressed for them to have too much information is giving them a lot to gossip about which people seem to do or even use it against you which was done to me, so I think being unique and keeping all personal stuff between you and whoever you share that moment with.