What can I do?

China
November 17, 2007 6:38am CST
I have loved a girl,but she have a boyfried.Everyday I must see her ,cause she and me is classmate .Sometimes there is envy in my heart,and the grief in my heart.So what can i do .I really don't know .Who could tell me?
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8 responses
@jiangli (363)
• China
26 Nov 07
One of my friend has the same problem ,his way of dealing with it is quitting!maybe she have a good relation with her boyfriend ,what you want to do would gives her harm!
• China
26 Nov 07
hey hey ,yes i think i will get out from it .At least ,i'm busy to my test now .
@jiangli (363)
• China
26 Nov 07
the same to you ,I also am busy in the test !
• India
26 Nov 07
Dear keep urself in the place of that girl what u will do at that time. dnt feel bad try to accept it may be god is testing u . try 2 forget her .
• China
26 Nov 07
hey hey ,thanks. the rest life must keep going.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
20 Nov 07
It is not worth going behind a girl who is not keen on you. Love is not one way traffic. Therefore, just stop going behind her or feeling envy about her. This will spoil your mental health. Therefore I suggest you to findout someother girl who loves you and you love her. Never rake the old subject with her.Try to be honest in your intentions and you will strike a good relationship.
@edigital (2709)
• United States
26 Nov 07
You talk with girl and her boy friend when they meet in front of you
• Kottayam, India
26 Nov 07
why don't you share your burden with another girl friend.
@atchmon (140)
• Philippines
17 Nov 07
The best thing to do is to forget her.. It is if you don't want to be hurt.. Cause based on my experience, if you wait for her and she did not notice you, then that would hurt so much.. but if you think that there is a possibility that she will like you, then go and wait..
@Raymo23 (463)
• Uganda
17 Nov 07
The same has happened to me, though she does not have a boyfriend. In your case, try becoming her friend, at least in the beginning, and let her see your nice side, as long as you behave positively. In case she opted out of her current relationship, you might have some leverage. Show her that you care about her, not that you are jealousy of her boyfriend esp if she loves him.Good luck.
• India
17 Nov 07
If she already has a boyfriend, you are wasting your time and emotional energy on her. However, if you want to steal her away from her boyfriend, you must really turn on your charm. Pay attention to her. Invite her for a date and spend some time talking to her everyday. However, if she is serious about her boyfriend, you had better leave her alone and try your luck with another girl.