How to catch a cheating Husband/Wife??
By Annilyn
@Annilyn (117)
United States
November 17, 2007 9:51am CST
I do believe my husband is cheating on me. He works with this girl and they have been talking on his cell and texts! He calls her BRIGHT EYES and tells her he misses her and hes depressed because he cant to see her that often. He now deletes all the texts and he has a lot of UNKNOWN callers on his cell. How the hell do I catch him... I need good ideas, crazy ideas!!! I want to hear all the stories!
6 responses
@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
3 Jul 08
No need to run for ideas...let time do its work..its time itself which will be the solution to all your problems. It is said that time is the greatest healer. He will come in the trap by himself, let time do its work.,
@mizcash (685)
• Canada
18 Jun 08
I am sorry I can't tell you how to catch a cheating husband on the public forum but I'll try and send it to your inbox. Keep all your records she sends him, you want to keep those safe inase you decide to go to court male sure you sue her also because she knows that he is married ...there is no scorn like a jinxed woman's.
@sergeantrom (5721)
• United States
11 Dec 07
There is a website made just for women. They deal with infidelity especially internet infidelity, cheating signs, books, tests, forums, stories from other readers. You can check out the orange box on my profile called "do not date online"
@delladidit (466)
• United States
18 Nov 07
...My ex used our home computer to cheat on me. I found the emails, copied them and put them in a safe place. He is'nt very smart, because he talked to one of my best friends and said he was cheating. DA!!
...Do you get to see the phone bill? If so, keep it or copy it and highlight the UNKNOWN and this girl's number on it. How does text messaging show up on phone bill? Highlight any you tihnk may be to or from her. Keep it in a safe place.
...Do you know how to get into his email? If you think he is emailing her, try to get copies of these. A computer foreinsic can retrieve anything he has opened and deleted on your home computer. Log dates you think he has done this.
...Keep a journal and write down things like, "He said he misses her" or "he got a call from "UNKNOWN" again and talked for 10 minutes." Write down when he is late coming home or leaves earlier than he normally does. Write down anything you suspect.
...Do you know of anyone else who has witnessed his behavior with this girl or about her? Has any of your friends heard him talk about her? Log those things in your journal, too.
...Can you stop in unannounced? PI's can be expensive, but usually worth the money for a few days work. I had one to retrieve my ex's police reports. He was arrested 4x's during our marriage.
...If you are thinking you will divorce him because he is cheating on you, I encourage you to start stashing money. Open your own account and have the statement sent to a family member or close friend or your church. (I got my own cell phone because he turned mine off twice and had my statements set to my church. I chair a board, so they just put them in my box.) I had my girlfriend open an account in her name for me to stash money. A little here and there will really help. I would also encourage you to attend a divorce seminar. They are usually free. If there are not any in your area, start calling attorney's who do divorce. Many will give first counseling free. You must start to protect your assets now. Even if you are not thinking of divorce right now, start putting money away.
...Good luck with this. Start writing down questions you may have for an attorney, too.
...Peace be with you. =(^;^)= Della
@spacecreature (114)
• United States
18 Nov 07
I don't know how to catch him but it sounds to me that you have already you know he has pet names for her and hhe misses her and doesn't have much time with her. Girl I think you have what you need.
