Girl friend vs Bestfriend
@ms_anti_valentine (85)
Philippines
5 responses
@saiwailaozei (363)
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18 Nov 07
if i was a girl,when i face such a situation.i will do nothing for it.and i will treat my boy friend like before.
as for my attitude to my best friend,i don't think she is wrong as nobody can control his own emotion,loving which guy is her freedom.
in addition,this case is also like a test for the love between my boy friend and me . if he is really love me ,he will not change his love for me ,or ,if he choose my best friend ,that means he don't love me indeed.losing such a person who doesn't like me is nothing.
@ms_anti_valentine (85)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
yeah your right about that..thank you for sharing your opinion!!
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@saiwailaozei (363)
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21 Nov 07
thanks for your comment,maintain your love carefully .
wish you all the best
@Gemmygirl1 (2867)
• Australia
19 Nov 07
Well, i don't think you'd have feelings for him if someone else likes him more than you do.
If he's your boyfriend, then you guys should be in LOVE, if his female best friend likes him more than you do then something is wrong with your relationship.
You & your boyfriend should love each other the same amount & it should be unconditional - there should be no-one else in the world who is able to like your boyfriend more than you do - unless you don't really like him that much to begin with, if that's the case, then why is he your boyfriend?
I don't think there's anything to fight about coz if he loves you, then the fact his best friend likes him shouldn't make a difference because he should be 100% committed to you anyway, he would just ignore her feelings for him.
@ms_anti_valentine (85)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
you have a point there...thank you for sharing your words of wisdom!!
@modernindia (498)
• India
18 Nov 07
hi friend ,
first want to say you sorry if you not like my nature or my idea which i say .
my dear i am male and my best friend is also male and me and my friend have many girl friends ,if in any case my friend can love with my girl friend at that case i am simply deal to my friend that first i can sleep my girl friend and after that my friend can sleep .
bye
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
18 Nov 07
If his girl friend likes him more than you do, what is there to deal with? Why would you even consider competing if you don't like him as much as she does? Now, if a female friend of my boyfriend's was coming on to him.....well, as any southern woman here can attest too, she better back the hell off! lol
