Have you ever been burned by a close friend?

Hello and Hi fortunebee. Yes I got experience on it. I really love her so much. If I got a problem I will shared it with her. Sometimes I invite her sleep at my house to accompany me study. She very close to me and my family. But after I know she make a bad things behind my back I can't stand it anymore. I told her what have I think in my mind and after that we break our friendship that we have built 9 years ago. I never expect she will do it to me. I really frustrated and don't want to see her face again. Now I got a new friend. I will care of her properly. I don't want to lose my best friend again. HAPPY LUCKY. **prettyhanan**

usually we have very close friends treat them like our family,never have same person,different thinking always normal,it's nothing,if we still trust each other.for myself something wrong in my friendship i never leave it in my own,talking seem to be great way to solved,when talking did not useful,frighting with friend just good for us,of couse just for male friends,fight just a way to get some better deal way.close friends still trust each other,it can be broke our shipment.after frighting we aslo drinking together,laughing,it's ok.some one not closely to me that should have another way,it can be deal like family members,it should be more smart.

That sucks. Especially when you have trusted that person. I'm the type (or at least I am now) who don't like unpleasant confrontations, but if time calls for it - I want to march up right to that person and tell him how I felt about his betrayal. I do give second chances, though. Everyone deserves it. But if that person does it again, well, he's history.

On two occasions I have been betrayed by someone close to me. The first time was an ex boyfriend (who was my boyfriend at the time of the incident). We were thinking of moving in together, so I'd started to buy things, which he kept at his place. He also borrowed a substantial sum of money because he lost he had quit his job just as his car needed major repairs. However, I realised that he wasn't the sort of person I wanted to spend my life with, so we seperated, but he refused to pay me back any of the money he had borrowed, or to give me any of the things that I had bought, despite the fact he maintained that he wanted to remain 'friends'. In a seperate situation, I had a friend borrow money from me, and then received a letter in the mail about 3 weeks later from a lawyer, informing me that my supposed friend had declared herself bankrupt, so therefore she was released from her obligation of repaying the money. I now don't lend money - not to friends or family. People have found this to be harsh in some circumstances, but I've realised that I work hard for what I earn, and I'm not willing to risk getting into a situation again where I am betrayed over something like money.