love and marry

Hello orchidfish. I think better you tell her the truth tell her what you really want from her. If she loves you, she will accept you as her husband. Just confidant with yourself. You can do it(if you want it). HAPPY LUCKY. **prettyhanan**

hello!love and marry?no i don't like.i advocate, marry and love.as you say, you have affairs with your girl friend you obtain her consent for marriage and meet her parents and suggest for marriage.i think there will be no problem then.

you want to ask her to live with you? or you're gonna ask her to marry you? if you want to live with her then why not just ask her to marry you?

i think its awesome that you want to marry her. honestly not very many people these days would or want to get married anymore..living together is fun but ure gonna have to think about the many conflicts that could arise.It can get really 'stuffy' sometimes you know.but if ure sure than i suggest u go ahead with whatever you wanna pursue.good luck!

If you are already sure that this is the girl that you want to spend the rest of your life with, then why not ask her to marry you? Though living together is an experimenta; stage to marriage, I still believe in the sanctity of marriage. If both of you love each that much and are committed with each other, I suggest that you plan for marriage instead. It is better to put things in their perspective and having our life in the right direction.

recognize your need. if you don't want to live alone, you can live with a friend. marrying is not actually easy. if you are financially stable, and think that you are actually mature enough to adjust with your mood and hers, then maybe you can actually ask her to live with you. don't force the issue upon her. be persuasive.

don't hesitate to tell her what you want. a very simply thing ,i think. good luck to you.