Is she a friend?

I would not call her a friend. It seems to me that she is just using you for what she can get out of you. I have had friends like this and I say goodbye to them. There is nothing wrong in helping friends out, but if this is the only thing you are doing, then this is not a friendship. If I were you, I would tell her to get some other mug to give her money and advise! Good luck

This is not a friend ; it's just someone that you know. She's using you big time and you should put a stop to it. A friend would keep in touch; do things for you; and wouldn't take advantage of you. It would be better if you broke the tie and not allow it to continue any longer.

For rare emergencies or catastrophes, one should definitely help out a friend financially. But what she's doing to you is habitual. She has become dependent on you and she's not going to stop until you yourself are flat broke. She is what we call a "friendly user", or a "bloodsucker". I suggest you find a way to avoid her. Move out of town and don't give her your new address.

i don't think she is your friend,if she think you are her friend,she shouldn't do as this.you should find a good friend who really good to you.^^

How do you define the word friend to you? a friend who never think about you and just look for benefit? she treat you like a money machine who she can turn to only when she has problem. U can make your decision by just turn to her and ask for hlep !!! how will she react to your proposal? will she help you as you help her?

none so far. i think she's not a friend but a companion. dont be afraid to tell her whats on your mind negative or positive its better that your honest to her than stay in a friendship that you have doubt.

She may not be friend of you but obviously you are hers. May be she knows that you understand her and will always help her out. You can see it as taking advantage of your goodness too but may be she has no one else to turn to except you. May be she is comfortable in pouring out her aunt too. Sometimes when the world walks out -a friend s the only person you can turn to. If you think its big deal then may be you can turn her out too , choice is always with you.

i don't think she is a truw friend of yours. She uses you as her friend in need,. I have myself seen this type of people. there was a guy who used to call me and talk very politely with me when he needed money or something. But when he realised taht he won't get that much anymore, he behaved very badly with me and now in no contact.

This is not a friend--she is just using you. If I were you I will not even hesitate one minute to cut her off. This is not a friendship because that's a two-way street--this is completely one sided, in her favour not yours. Just keep in mind: if you want to donate to a charity, make sure it is one that will give you a receipt for tax purposes, not one where your money gets lost down the deep dark hole of no return! Good luck to you....

how can i say u~~~~ she is not your friend, she just want to use you~~~~ i think as a friend, it is very important to communication and help, but the help not only for need money like this,

well even i had been in such circumstance many time. i do give money to some friends but they never return it.on top of that they even ask for more money.i will tell you she is certainly not a good friend of yours.its good to help friends ,however in good friendship the friend will definately return the money on the time assured and she will be very pparticular about the date as well.SO beaware of such friends.they are not the ones who will help you in need.

I wouldn't call her a friend. A friend is someone that would pay you back if they borrowed money, would call you just to see how you are doing, try to make time to visit with you and I could go on. I don't have very many people that I call friend. A friend is a very special person. This girl sounds like she is taking advantage of you because she knows you will let her. I'm not mean enough to tell someone I didn't want to be there friend (or her bank...lol) so I would just avoid her calls and she will soon get the point, especially since she just wants to take your money and advice but doesn't care about you and what's going on in your life. Good luck.

It really depends on the situation in more details. But i wouldn't exactly consider her a "best friend" from what i'm going on, but I believe that if someone needs your help, why not do some good and help her out if you can :)

I hate to say it, but she's taking you to the cleaners. You should kick her to the curb ASAP. Be nice about it, but a real friend is a friend in good times and bad, not just when you need something. There comes a time when you have to re-evaluate the fundamental assumptions about a friendship, and this is probably one of them. If it were me, I'd give her a choice. "Either we start acting like friends or you can find yourself another 'friend' to give you money". I think it'd be an excellent example for your kids to learn that some people will take advantage of others' kindness and you HAVE to draw the line somewhere. I know it sounds kinda harsh, but it's the honest thing to do.

I think friend in need is a friend indeed saying is coming true for your friend. But I think you should seriously think about it as she might be fooling you around.

She's not a friend. She's someone who wants to have beneficts from her friendship with you.

She is not a friend.If she were to be a true friend she would also call and visit you to have fun with you to talk about fun stuff and not always wanting something from you. What if you would call her only when you need something how would you call it? I think you would call it using your friend. I had a friend who used me for and in the end she betrayed me by sleeping with my boyfriend. It's better to not be friends anymore or to confront her with her actions,because honey she's using you Major.

i guess she is only using you. is she not ashamed of not paying you of what she borrows? why wont you ask her to pay you? dotn be soo good. learn to say no if she asks for money again.. i guess she's a friend but not the truest of friends..

she is not your real friend because she is using u. remember one thing friendship has no limit so it cant be broken.

I dont think i would consider this person a friend in my opinion, to me a friend is someone who wants to see you happy and would do everything in there power to make that happen. Your friend may not realize how much this is bothering you and of course continue doing it. I think you should talk to her in a friendly manner and just let her know whats on your mind. If it does ruin your friendship then she probably wasnt the greatest friend to have anyways. I can tell my friends anything whether it be something that they are doing that is bothering me or whatnot and never have i lost a friend because of it. You have to remember people like honesty and would rather be told their doing something that is bothering someone than to continue doing it. More often than not people are just unaware of the affects of their actions on others and just need to be reminded every once in awhile :) Cheers! -m