Do you glance around before opening the door?
@lordwarwizard (35747)
Singapore
November 19, 2007 7:58am CST
Not the toilet door, not the bedroom door but the main door. Yes, the main door to your house. Before you pull out your bunch of keys and unlock the gate/door, do you look around you first?
You know, what if a stranger suddenly approaches and he turns out to be a robber? For me, I am normally quite careful. I try to make sure that it is "ALL CLEAR" because I unlock the gate. But if I hear sounds nearby, I would still not be so paranoid as to strike a defense pose. :P
I would still open the gate but I will try to extend my peripheral vision to the farthest and be ready to react should anything happen.
What about you? Do you glance around and check for strangers before unlocking your door or gate? Do share your thoughts. =)
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
Since we're a bunch of girls here, I always make sure to be extra careful while opening the main door. The house I'm presently living in have a common gate. Here's something I like to share with you.
Since a new neighbor moved in a few months ago, their maids and workers always left the gate open. I already posted a notice right there on the gate to CLOSE it at all time. It is a good thing that there's a guard guarding the gate from 8AM to 8PM.
Apparently, these people didn't understand what caution means. I discovered countless of times that the main gate was left open during nighttime. I addressed this concern to the new neighbor and yet, nothing happened. My house is the closest to the gate. In case there's robbers, my house will be the first one they will think of entering. And so, I have to prepare myself and turn into wonder woman should it happened, lol!
Talks about crappy neighbor. =(
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
lol...(bunny getting cramps from laughing!!!) You missed my point baby. The guard is only on-duty until 8PM. My house is located on one of the busiest street. I better start saving on my precious bottles. Or better yet, I can use some of it and smashed on anyone who didn't bother to close the gate. :P
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
19 Nov 07
Seems like I never look around for we only go out during the day and ya just dont think about looking around then but to we have a walk way to walk up to the door so we can see ever wehre around the door and we have no place for any one to hide!
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
19 Nov 07
Geez, but surely the day is not much safer than the night? :P
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
19 Nov 07
I ask who it is at the door, or I may even peek to see who is at the door, I think it is better to look first. My Grand-children has a habit of opening up the door, without asking who it is, I told them check first, just don't open the door right away.
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
19 Nov 07
I am sorry I didn't mean to do this on purpose.
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
19 Nov 07
Nah, of course. It's fine. :P
And well, actually I was asking more of opening the door from the outside, not inside. :PP
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
19 Nov 07
I ask who it is at the door, or I may even peek to see who is at the door, I think it is better to look first. My Grand-children has a habit of opening up the door, without asking who it is, I told them check first, just don't open the door right away.
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
20 Nov 07
That's one good thing about a friendly neighborhood.:)
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@veraonefun (1)
• China
20 Nov 07
If a stranger knocks my door,i will be not happy.i ask who it is.but when i am at my hometown(in a small village),no one knocks the door,my neighbors come in directly.Because we are so familiar with each other.haha
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
19 Nov 07
That's right Rebecca I glance too, there are so many crazy things that is happening today in this world.
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
19 Nov 07
But well, it's good if we all know karate... :P
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
20 Nov 07
Not really. My front door is not near any bush or trees or walls where someone can hide.
Plus, at night we have security lights. You know, the kind that flash on if someone is there.
Mostly I look out for my cats, who want to race me through the door at top speed.
I understand your need for security for checking everything. It is a good idea to be safe.
@keepermykitty (2573)
• Canada
19 Nov 07
Well being disabled , I can`t run away so why put of the enevitable ???
If I`m attacked I can`t stop it so ...
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
20 Nov 07
Have some "weapons" with you nevertheless. Why give those scoundrels an easy time? :P
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@ItTakesAllSorts (4096)
•
19 Nov 07
I am always aware if people are on my balcony that are not my neighbours as I go to my door. Also, one of my neighbours has been in and out of hospital for mental health issues and on ocassions he has been a little crazy. For this reason I am always on guard if he makes an appearance as I go to my door.
Living in London we often need r=eyes in the back of our head!
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@copperkitten (3473)
• United States
19 Nov 07
I do. I dont know why though. Its just a reaction I guess. Make sure no one sees me going to my own house. LOL. I do check whos out when I go to let my dogs out. I let them out with no line and they stay in the yard unless thee neighbors are out. Then they have to go visit. So I look out the door and make sure there not out.
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
20 Nov 07
So you suggest "sneaking" into your house? Hahahaha :P
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
20 Nov 07
It would be nice if they can all be your friends and help you look after the place. :-)
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
19 Nov 07
You're right. Never hurt to be safe. =)
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@raychill (6525)
• United States
19 Nov 07
No.
I don't live in a bad neighborhood where I feel I should have to. Plus, I live at the top of a bunch of stairs and there's not much of a landing so no one can hide up there and if someone comes up the stairs after me there's not much I could do.
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
19 Nov 07
Hmm... a er... good location then.:P
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@shakirabijin (79)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
yeah..I always check my surroundings first before I open the main door of our house. Because I am just trying to protect myself and our house from any robbery or killing thing like what I saw in the TV.
@bing_r77 (237)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
In my case, nope. I just opened the door directly. My mind is already set that our house is safe. and we have no robbers in our neighbors.. i know all our neighbors. and i trusted them. they are all my friends.
@annettenasser (2992)
• Kuwait
24 Nov 07
Well for us here, we have this security guard in front of the building and no one is allowed to enter the building without knowing where or which apartment they well be visiting so normally we dont have anyone around when opening the main door at home.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
19 Nov 07
We live in a relatively safe area, so we never do, unless at night, but during the day there are always neighbours around or peeping out of their net curtains, we also have neighbourhood watch, but I guess it only takes one occasion! We always leave the light on at night if a a family member is out so there is plenty of light around when they come to open the door.
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
19 Nov 07
Sounds that you have a friendly neighborhood watch force! :P
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
19 Nov 07
Your house will make a good lookout in military terms then.:P
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@AnoChaudhary (1719)
• India
19 Nov 07
Hello Lordwarwizard....how you doing/...well your discussion got me thinking! and i found out i never thought of it because i rarely answer the door at home! but i guess my mom and brother do glance around. There is a window facing the main gate and they normally look out before opening the door.
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
20 Nov 07
Fine I guess. :P
But hmm, I was talking more about opening the door from the outside. :PP
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@AnoChaudhary (1719)
• India
20 Nov 07
LOL ok...and i never do that either!! where we its a quite neighborhood and there is hardly anyone around apart from the people living here and their relatives!!!.....and since our street has about only seven houses we almost know all our relatives and friends!
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@steele4real (107)
• United States
19 Nov 07
Very interesting question, and yes i always do look around before i enter a door. I am very paranoid of intruders and it just eases my mind to stop for a second and look around. Who knows it might save my life one day. + for a cool topic.
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
19 Nov 07
So I am not the only paranoid one. :P
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@saiwailaozei (363)
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20 Nov 07
when it's time for sleep in every night,i will make sure my door is clocked,but usually people liveing in my home town don't glance around before locking the door as the place we live is relative safe,compared with some other places.
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