Fogetting someone you love the most....
By ebtenorio
@ebtenorio (765)
Philippines
November 19, 2007 9:09pm CST
I do not know really what has gotten into me. I could hardly take her out of my mind... To think that I am already dumped. I could not stay mad at her and I could not think forgetting her... Oh shucks. Too difficult really. Heavy heart... Rejected. Dumped. Yet I still love her. I am not learning my lessons right? I think its ok. I could not take away the part of me that makes me happy: LOVING HER. And that I think I shall do... not unless the winds carry her memories away from me and leave me hallow... Good day.
26 responses
@Lady_Justice (969)
• United States
20 Nov 07
Relationships can be painful. Love is not always easy. It's never easy to heal from a broken heart. Time does help, believe it or not. You may always have special feelings for her, but at some point, it will hurt less. Best wishes.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Thanks, Lady_Justice... I appreciate you having commented here in this irrelevant discussion of mine...
@bong_domingo (878)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Question: and after all these what shall have you for yourself?
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Shut myself out from this feeling... and by this time, I will be afraid of falling hard... and move on, and concentrate on the things I must be doing... I shall ignore having to fall again... for I have been into this over and over again... let's just say I am kinda tired of falling... the next blow shall be fatal to me I guess.
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@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
I hope there will never be.. that is why I must distance myself now from that irrelevant feeling of love... I hate it when I fall. Really abhorring....
@xenna1986 (228)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
youre right. forgetting somebody who you really love is a very hard thing to do. The brain keeps on teleling us that it isnt the right thing anymore but the heart continues to hope.. For another chance..
@xenna1986 (228)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Be it a hopeless love, all that matters is we continue to love and be hurt. Ouch!
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
I agree xenna... You bet I do... I still love her and be hurt over and over again... :(
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Uhm... I am optimistic! My weakness is to always hope... even waiting for a hopeless love.
@hillock (749)
• Qatar
20 Nov 07
Its ok.if it makes you happy just "loving her" so be it. nowadays its quite hard to be happy. And you cant tell your heart who to love..they just know it! ive been like you before but then i got to move on and forget him. i didnt love him anymore but it didnt feel like somethings missing. And i still remember him from time to time and he was the guy i used to love and that remains a fact! ^-^
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Thanks for your encouragement.... :( But then I would keep my chin up.... and look forward for my future...
@linben (132)
•
20 Nov 07
Love can be painful sometimes, especially when things don't work out. I think you can engage yourself in many other stuffs. Just keep yourself busy then maybe you won't have time to think about her. To date someone else maybe another choice but i don't think it worth trying cos you can't have fun if you two don't get such feelings. What about sports aha:) Good day!
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Yeah... nice idea... but I have never thought of dating even once. I have never thought of anyone. I have not search for a replacement in my heart. Coz I love her so much.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
Transplant? Nah. Hehehehe.... I might fall for a guy! HAHHAHA
@homesick (12)
• Switzerland
26 Nov 07
actually my friend, each and every person that comes along our way, we will never ever gonna forget them specially when they became part of ouf life and has put mark on our heart, just like me, me and my special someone is working in same hotel, and whenever i saw that person i always remember the time when were still together, although its very hard to forget that person, the life must go on, maybe it just mean that you are not meant for each other,. just like my situation here.,
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
20 Nov 07
it's never easy to recover after a fall. it's natural for someone who had loved someone so deep.
it hurts a lot. we always decide to learn a lot from the break up. but honestly, we don't. we just let our heart choose who to love. being hurt is a part of being in a relationship. it's difficult to say who that person you will be with forever. but good thing is... you gave it a try.
as i always say, cry if you feel like crying. be sad when you feel bad about it. you're only human and you are entitled to such feelings. but don't cry forever and don't be sad for a lifetime. just give your heart a time to heal. and when it beats again for someone else and when you're ready to love again, give your heart another chance to do so.
anne
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
I really did cry a lot... for i do not want not staring at her for long. I dont think my heart shall beat for someone else... its only owned by her.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
25 Nov 07
This is one person you loved with every atom in you and she did not love you back-she instead looked at you spitefully in her heart and concluded rudely that you dont deserve her. That is the most painful face of rejection and being dumped. The chemistry between you was a one way traffic, it continues amazingly to be even when you Mr.ebtenorio know this lady does not value your love-I think you cannot live your life like this, get this cruel girl out of your mind, switch her off, errace her phone number, discard her photos and recollect your self. Keep out of relationship for at least a year-you will get your true love,remember, the beautiful ones are not yet born ebtenorio,you are gona land on the one you will enjoy a two way chemistry traffic with, the one who will love you back with a bonus for every bit of love you release to her. And believe you me, when you are all settled with the love of your life, this very person who today keeps on your mind after dumping you will come looking for you, simply kiss your new found love in her face and show her you were the rejected brocken brick, who needs her no more. Stop any further infatuations with this horrible girl who dumped you.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
26 Nov 07
Thanks for your concern and to our advice as well... I appreciate them very much.... :)
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
21 Nov 07
If you fallen inlove with someone it hard to forget, but you need to go forward and try somehing that will give you a busy day, just 1 day you will forget her and the person that will give you a medicine for your broken heart she on the way but you need to move on Mr. Ebtenorio.
Wish you all the Best.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
Yeah it took me several months to get over a girl who dumped me. It hurts but over time you will heal. Move on. Life must go on. There are many women out there. Enjoy your life.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
Yeah! A whole bunch of them!! But there can only one Almond in my heart... it is sad that I still love her. :(
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
21 Nov 07
yeah, I think I recognize that feeling too
its very hard to feel that sort of thing
@sakshifille (52)
•
25 Nov 07
as it is said time is the best healer and in your case too time will help it will take you some time to come over this situation i know how does it feels to be rejected but it will take time to overcome this feelling and its true you can never take away part of your life that made you happy but the memories of that will surely fade away with time
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
25 Nov 07
I hope too saks... i do hope these memories of her will just fade... like the disappearing of the smoke when it goes up into the air, or when it mixes with air itself....
@lionmuri (68)
• Indonesia
20 Nov 07
deae ebte
please dont love too much dont hate to much if you have your hearth hurt now back to the beginning why you need to love
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
hi.. I actually do no hate her.. i fact, i just love her more now... despite the rejection.
@kittypinky (245)
• China
21 Nov 07
yes,i have the same problem on you .i ever loved someone so much ,and we broke up half year ago and now i still cannot forget him and always think of him .i think forgeting someone is a hard thing and you and me will never well done !!
so maybe ```i think we should not do that sedulously and let time do that for us .maybe after a long time we will think of something suddenly that we've forgotten to think of her or him so long time .
good luck to you !!
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
Yeah... As what they always say, "TIME HEALS"... lets just test if it will for us, kitty.
@vikceo (1301)
• India
20 Nov 07
forgetting someone you love is the hardest task because love makes you depend on him.the person whom you love is reflected in your talks and memories everywhere as your life get attached to him.specially it happens more tht wat u try to forget you remember that thing alot.the memories of person be in your mind.it is not easy to forget.but it s life and it cant be stopped it ll move on.and time heals everything as time is the best doctor
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
You know, vikco, she has been my first utterance in the morning... I mean I utter her name... when I wake up and when I sleep.. I just love her much... you think time will heal?
@subha12 (18441)
• India
20 Nov 07
i think you are deep in love. whether rejected or accepted, is not going into youir head. Thats why its called blind love. But it is not love that is painful, its the absence of it that is painful.
May be it is really hard to erase those memories, but people learn to bear with it with time.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
I am really deeply in love with her... fail or succeed, i shall love her still i think...
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
That may be the reason why I am always soaked with the same situation over and over again, ayou.
@fanji008 (775)
• China
20 Nov 07
Hi,there! I know you're so much into the love. Well,it's really difficult to forget someone that you love. However,life is not always develope as what we expect.There's sth we can't control.If we can do nothing about the love or we can't see the way right now,maybe we have to give it up.It hurts and affects a lot,but that's life and that's the way.We have to learn to do it. Time is the best medicine to cure your injuries. Just give yourself the chance and the time. Hopefully you'll overcome it! Good luck and best wishes:)
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
What you said here fan are all correct... Thanks for these words... I shall need time I guess... though I shall still be loving her coz I really do love her very much.
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
Hehehe.. Thanks raizza... I really do love her very much.... I actually am too optimistic that I think she would be the one in the future despite the rejection.
@CIELOMARIE (4)
•
20 Nov 07
why it is so hard for everyone specifically those who are falling in love to face the reality of falling out of love?? it really do hurts but thats how love sometimes deal with us. Maybe we should just learn and accept the fact that love has its own rules.. it hurts.. and why??
@ebtenorio (765)
• Philippines
20 Nov 07
that is my question too... havent i learned from all these things? I am a fool. really.