What will you do??It's very difficult QUESTION FOR ME..i NEED YOUR OPINIONS..
By fegrace
@fegrace (32)
Philippines
5 responses
@fredgame (1260)
• China
22 Nov 07
Hi Fegrace, it's better you show that affection for that person though that person doesn't care for you and since you know he/she has the same affection as you have, it'll come to a time the person will see the need to change and that change will be good for both of you. you just show you good will towards him and love for him, if you really are. you'll loss nothing if he doesn't change but he'll one day confess if not to you. good luck.
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 07
erm..try talking to him? if you don't have the guts to talk to him face to face, then maybe you can talk to him online or something. get to know him, and then maybe ask him out for a drink or something. or bring chocolates for your friends and give some to him hehe...take it slow and perhaps one day you can tell him how you feel towards him. if you really like this guy, go for it.
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 07
i'm sure you could talk to him online? you won't even be seeing his face :) ..hmm well..if you really like someone, then you would at least push away your pride and ego. if not, then you'll never be able to be with the one you love. in this century that we're living in, it's not wrong for girls to make the first move. try not to make it that obvious, if you're afraid. but if you're going to wait for him, it might not happen so you just gotta do something and walk the extra mile if you really like this guy.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
21 Nov 07
If you find that the person has same feelings then you can proceed. Say you have waited for sufficient time. Now this person is not making the move. Now you have to make the move and try to understand first with some indirect question whether he really feels the same or not.
Then you make direct move.
@nkhanna (922)
• India
28 Nov 07
well the first tihng that you should do according to me is that you should go and talk to that guy unfrontly.there is no point hiding your feelings deep in the heart and just waiting for him to speak or initiate.nowadays he does ont matter as to who proposes.be brave enough and face his acceptance or rejection.different person have different way of caring and loving others.might be he also cares for you but you are not quite aware of it.that's why i am suggesting you that you should talk to that guy openly.if he has the same feeling then go ahead with him and if not then there is no point tihnking about all this.
@JowJie (271)
• Philippines
21 Nov 07
Hi Fegrace! I dont understand the line "doesnt care about me", you mean you think he likes you but he's not making a move? Hmn I think the guy is testing you...like looking for signs if you like him, or maybe he's just too shy to confess. If you like the guy (I mean REALLY like the guy), you can give him some hints, like inviting him out for lunch (in a friendly way), offering him some of your cooking, talking to him always, etc etc. If he is not dumb he will get what you are trying to say ^__^. If not, maybe he is not interested at all.
