if your spouse cheated on you with your best friend who would you forgive first?

well cheating is somthing which can never be forgiven however if i had to choose as to who should i forgive first i would forgive my partner first.not just only because i love him a lot.but also becuse my partner came into my life much later than my friend.my best friend knowing me very well,how couls she even think of doing this with my spouse.the firar day when things would have started between them,might be my spouse would have started,but being my friend she should ha ve come up to me and said this.but she did not .this is onething which i can never expect from my friend and this friendship needs to be end.a friend is one who helps us in trouble not one who creates trouble for us.

I've seen a movie like these also in a australian movie channel, her husband cheated her with her best friend. But when it happened to me I will try to forgive first my husband in regard with my kids specially if he is the father.

I will never spare the cheater. I will try my best to cut off, stop and cease the relationship wit the cheater. How ever I would try to forgive the person who has been cheated and I will keep it mind that this may also happen in the future so I would try to take care in future.

noneeeeeeeeeeee :) i think my true friend should never disappoint me or try even to be involved in a cheap realtionship with my husband so she's not a true friend and i will not forgive her. as for my husband i can't forgive also because if i did it will be an habit for him he will cheat and i'll forgive and so on. this is my opinion :) thank you

I'm not sure I could forget them but if I had to I'd forget my partner first because I know my best friend for a very long time and i don't know it's horrible to care more about your bestfriend's partner than your bestfriend ^^

i wouldn't forgive either of them (ever) in most cases.... but most likely my spouse~ my friend should be the one who sticks by me through husband troubles~ yet they go behind my back to sleep with my husband! Also, I think a (girl)friend should understand the pain another woman would go through in this situation even more than the man so they have absolutely no excuse. Really, it depends on the situation.

I am not generous in this aspect. They are very important people for me. So if they cheat me, I will be very hurtful and I won't forgive them forever.

Is this a trick question? I would not forgive either one of them. They can go off and be together or something cause I would be writing both of them off.