And the bachelor is still a bachelor..!!!
By nelly5
@nelly5 (1424)
United States
November 20, 2007 2:52pm CST
Okay, do any of you here watch the bachelor?? I have to say he has been one of the cutest bachelors yet and he is still a bachelor, I am not okay with that..what the heck.
Last night was the final rose show. I knew I was going to be sad, I always do get teary eyed when he has to tell the final goodbye to one of the women. I knew this was coming but told myself, well I will be excited and so happy for the woman that he does pick.
Okay, he let Jenny go, and yes I cried. But then here come Deeanna, so I am thinking, okay, they will be cute together...she loves him..and then boom, he tells her goodbye too!!!
I sat there, with my jaw dropped and just wondered, what in the heck, I thought maybe he was going to tell the producers to bring Jenny back..and he didn't.
I can't wait to see the after the final rose show tonight, it should be interesting and sad.
I guess all I can assume is that he didn't know really if he honestly loved either one of these women so he didn't want to promise himself to either one and not be able to keep that promise...humm, I am so disappointed at how this ended. Was anyone else diappointed too????
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@hmbw_24 (404)
• United States
20 Nov 07
i had to miss the show last nite and i was so disappointed today to hear what happened. i guess that he did the right thing if he did not think either one of them were a good fit for him. but out of all those women you'd think that he could have narrowed it down to one that he thought he might have a chance with. maybe he realized he made a mistake with a woman he sent home, hmmm wouldnt it be a surprise if he changed his mind and brought one of them back?
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@RenaeT (681)
• United States
21 Nov 07
I used to watch the Bachelor, but my interest wore off pretty fast with all the in between junk with the girls fighting and crying etc. . . . BUT . . .I always turned it on for the last 15 minutes to just see the rose ceremony!! Too funny huh?? I just couldn't stand the cat fights and back biting part.
So, today, at work, I tried to see what happened and evidently, that stuff if blocked on our work network!!! SO, I had to wait till I got home to see it! OMG.... I was so sad for both of them!!
I can't say if I was disappointed because I didn't really follow all of their dates . . . but it was a shocking ending.
@RenaeT (681)
• United States
22 Nov 07
Hey Nelly,
Well, I just watched the AFter the Rose ceremony on line. I think all 25 girls are blessed that he didn't choose any of them. I'm no expert on body language or bahavior . . . but, I watched him closely and even before he admitted he had 'issues' I could tell he's got issues. Just his facial expressions and his body language spoke volumes to me. They should all be glad he didn't pick them. The guy has some committment issues. He's got big baggage to unpack and they need to all be thankful that he didn't pick any of them to unpack his bags in their lives. I feel sorry for the girls, and I think someday, they will look back and see this as a blessing.
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@nelly5 (1424)
• United States
26 Nov 07
Yes, I totally agree with you. He does have certain issues to work through, which we all do, but I believe his are with relationships. I also felt so sorry for the girls, but you are right, later in life they will see this as a blessing, I am sure. I don't believe that DeAnna or Jenny will have a problem finding a good man after them being on the show. Thanks for the post.
@nelly5 (1424)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Yes, I do get annoyed with all the bickering and back stabbing, but I also have to laugh at it. I mean these women go on there, knowing there is going to be a lot other women fighting for this guys attention, so of course there is going to be back stabbing.
As for the end, ugh, I was not happy. I watched "after the final rose" last night and it made me cry even more. DeAnna really made me sad. I liked both but you could tell she is still feeling really tore up over this. I mean Jenny made me sad too, but she didn't cry as hard as DeAnna was...so sad. I just can't imagine why in the world he wouldn't want to continue to date one of them and just give it time and see if it worked out. If he kept one there, it didn't mean they had to marry right away and he surely didn't have to tell her that he loved her if he didn't.
I do kinda see his point though, he didn't want to tell one of them that he loved her, when he knew that he wasn't in love...but then again, I don't think he even knows..lol Geesh, now he has me all confused. lol
Thanks for the post.
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