The dying secret is out of the bag now
@cartoon4umaniacs (1648)
United States
November 20, 2007 10:33pm CST
Well, if you guys have read my earlier post you would know what I mean. I had witness my friend's fiance holding another girl's hand. I didn't know if I was to tell her or not and I was trying to get a hold of her to let her know and talk to her one on one. But, because of him getting in the way I couldn't get a hold of her and therefore, couldn't talk to her. I was unable to call her at work too. Now the jerk told her that I saw him and his best friend at the mall (the girl) and made a scene at the mall. I didn't do no such thing. She is also mad that I didn't inform her that I saw this. I try to explain but now she is avoiding me like a plague. What would you do if you had this problem on your hands?
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@LSwitzer1 (6)
• United States
22 Nov 07
I do have to ask though, usually more times than none the girl that is the fiance' is usually your "best friend", why was he in a different city at some mall with this supposed "best friend" and why were they holding hands? I don't understand why he is seeing this other girl (your friend) if he wants to be with another (his "best friend") is he that much of a player? And what kind of message is this sending out to his supposed "best friend" that he was holding hands with in the mall? Hasn't she got a clue as to what is going on? or of the other girl (your friend) If not, they both need to be told what a peice of work this guy is and they both need to dump him.
@cartoon4umaniacs (1648)
• United States
22 Nov 07
The friend (Nicole)is just my friend not my best friend just one of my good friend. We usually hang out in a group. I took my girls to Milpitas (the Great Mall) to go shopping that is two hours away from our home. It just so happen we bump into Nicole's fiance. He lied to Nicole saying that he went over to his best friend's house (in Milpitas). He told her that I was upset and created a scene in which He was offended and his best friend called me a B****. So, he told Nicole to watch out for me because I will call her to tell her some lies because I was upset with the name calling. He told Nicole that he was not holding hands and that I made that up. I have no idea what his best friend think nor do I care. But I just didn't think it will snow ball into something like this crazy.
@LSwitzer1 (6)
• United States
22 Nov 07
I responed to this but on your other post, go see what I posted in response to this on your other post under LSwitzer1. I posted twice. Look at the last post. this will answer your question.
@LSwitzer1 (6)
• United States
22 Nov 07
OPPs! Sorry I must of press the post comment twice on accident.
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
21 Nov 07
I would send her an email and tell her what you saw, what you tried to do and how you were blocked and blindsided by her fiancé, and tell her to be careful of him as he doesn't have her best interest at heart, and leave it at that, when it all goes down the tube and you and I know it will she will come back around to you. you can not make some one change. so just do what you feel is best and back off. other wise it will some how all be your fault. and we know where that is going to come from
@cartoon4umaniacs (1648)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Very true and I totally agree with you. That is a good idea to email her. I will write her one now. Hopefully she don't hit the delete button before she reads it though. Thank you for your comment.
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
21 Nov 07
You are going to have to step aside and let her take this fall alone, but when she does be the friend that she needs to pick up the pieces. Because she will discover what is going on and then she will need someone in her corner, however love is blind and being in love will make you forsake all others, just stand by her and let her do her own thing.
@cartoon4umaniacs (1648)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Thank you for your comment. I will stay true to being her friend.
@LSwitzer1 (6)
• United States
22 Nov 07
I responed to this but on your other post, go see what I posted in response to this on your other post under LSwitzer1. I posted twice. Look at the last post. this will answer your question.
