Crab Mentality...
By ayou82
@ayou82 (3450)
Philippines
November 21, 2007 5:39am CST
How many of you here hates this kind of mentality?? Men ..I do!
Specially if you know that you are having a good progress and you are doing this for everyone...
Got crabs?? ahemm I mean Mentality like this?? or you know someone and you want to share it here..Your choice..
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2 responses
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
23 Nov 07
What is the Crab Mentality? Obviously it's not an Aussie expression.
@menctomas (278)
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
i think crab mentality means you don't entertain any other ideas except that of what you think is right or wrong. sort of like a stubborn kind of thing. am i right? i would explain it that way
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
Hello MAte....Yeah its not one of the Aussie slangs we have here in Oz.
It is a metaphor refers to a pot of of crabs which ones tries to escape over the side, but is relentlessly pulled down by the others and join the pot.. The best to to describe it by the phrase "If I can't hav it, Neiher can you"
Thanks Jen for participating!
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
Hello Menctomas,We have that kind of mentality here ..Us filipinos do have that..
Example: Thomas is well paid in the company and he is making a lot of money than the others who have the same job,same time, and same amount of work, in short Thomas progress well than the others. On the other hand his colleagues tries to pull him down by means of saying something to the head office that Thomas is playing a dirty trick thats why he earns more.
" Siraan Kung BAga" Because Thomas' colleagues dont want to see Thomas ahead of them..
When I worked in Japan, there are so many classic examples of this kind of Mentality. And the reason being is they dont want to see others soar high in their fields and they make an effort to create a dilemma that affects friendships and bond with in the group. ( Hilahan pababa..siraan magkabila)
Thanks Menctomas.. Have a good One.. Thanks Dear!
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
23 Nov 07
I don't like this type of mentality. I do know some people who are like that and are very negative. If they can't have it no one can. It's very mean and selfish to think this way.