Can a good friend become my lover ???

All I know is that it will be very hard if ishika doesn't have any feelings for you. My friend who had the same situation told me that she felt cheated when she had known that her bestfriend likes her because it gave her the feeling that he used their friendship for him to be closer with her. Maybe you could try showing what you feel first before telling her about it. Let her know through your actions first that you really care and you'll be there to protect her. Give signals for her to notice you as a man and more than just a friend. Even with the smallest things like taking her home to be sure of her safety. Oh yeah, my friend is now having some feelings for the guy because he didn't lose hope and started courting her. But it's all up to you to decide whether you'll tell her or not because you are the one who knows best how she reacts. ..^^..cherry

i really think that your good friend can become your lover because you spent many time with her and learn more of him and she also learm many things that concerned you and if you try to get a girl friend i you never succeed it is because of him i think that if she were accepted the new situation that means for you to have a girl friend she will help you to get it but because she is waiting for you she can't tell you all the secret you need to know to handle a girl this is my opinion so if you really feel something for her don't waste your time

Well, i dont think friendship is a problem for being in love. Check how she feels about you. Just show your feelings or just ask her without beating around the bush. I wish you good luck.

I think there is nothing wrong if the two of you will become lovers. And I think it would be nice because the two of you already know each other a lot. Become lovers is just same as being friends but with more of responsibility toward each other and commitment. If he likes you and you like him them go with that love and never keep the feelings inside your heart. It might explode. lol.

Well that is really possible. In fact, it's a healthy relationship if you start from good friends first prior to becoming lovers. I advised that you keep your relationship strong and I am sure your relationship will grow. Good luck.:-)

yes she can provided even she loves you, see being together from such along time has made you people compatible to each other and so you can get along well.Definatley your relation is pretty transparent and you are sharing almost evry thing.so thats what is a relation more over about.

It is very difficult to answering. A true Partner is lover and good friend. So, A good friend may be a lover. Ultimately, Love is God and whole thing will be good.

look it can happen only she has the same feelings like you. I also guess she has. but you have to be prepared for any outcome. it may be she has only considered you as her good friend, nothing else. Try to get some hint by some indirect hints. After that approach directly if you feel all is ok.

Of course. Why not? I don't see anything wrong with it. If you're starting to think about her more, I think that's the beginning of love. Go for it.

Why you dont try it,as long as you understands each other feeling,theres nothing wrong with that,Its better that you already knew her.But think it twice because there is also a tendency that you break you friendship because of that.

well many a times it has been proved than good friends can become good lovers as well.i myself am married to my best friend and the marriage is working for both of us.to being good lovers all that is required is to understand each other, care for each,respect the feelings of each other and love each other.if you two does have all these tihngs within yourself for each toher then you can definately be a good partner.talk to ishika as well whether she is also having such feeling for you or not?if yes then go ahead and lead a happy married life.

Hi,there! It's possible that a good friend become your lover. I always think lovers should be good friends first.It's better for developing the relationship.Since you guys know each other pretty well and have many things in common.It's easy for you to understand each other and not fight with each other. But the point is,now you have the feeling for her,how about her? Have you ever talked with her about that? If you really love her and think she's the girl that you're looking for,you can go and express your feelings to her. Good luck and best wishes for you two:)

it may happen someitimes and there is no wring in it i think so...and also the other person should have the same opinion on you if so it wil be good else your opinion on her may someimes ruin your valuable freindship also.so deal so sensitively..all

you hve been friends for so many years,you know each other very well! if you both feel good aboat each other,i think it means you can try!

try loving her... there is a high percentage that she will love you back. Good luck

i know you are worried that you are too weak on her, but i am sorry to tell you,that's your feeling,not hers,whether you are weak or not on her,not depends on you, but on her,may be she is missing you too,but she is a girl,she cann't tell you directly. so, my suggestion is,do something to let her know your feelings first,if she smart enough,she will give you some signals that she has feelings on you or not.try it,otherwise you will regret in future~~best regards!

Of course, a good friend could become a lover. But the question is, do you want her to be your lover or just as a friend? And are you willing to take the risk that she'll turn you down and you'll lose her friendship.