Should I take another child???
By bishu_sinha
@bishu_sinha (1457)
India
10 responses
@bishu_sinha (1457)
• India
23 Nov 07
If I take another child then is there any possibility to dammage my health ??
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@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
25 Nov 07
life is a gamble..but the chances are if you are in good health and eat right then you should be OK..but children are always a gamble..one can be sweet at pie and then another could be just the opposite..you never know...
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
28 Nov 07
Hi Dear
i think 3 yrs is good gap and u should go for another children as till ur girl will be around 4 and school going.
and at that time she will accept new baby but also love to play with him/her
well as far as male baby is concern, u never know as its in sperm of male, u can only pray and hope for best, but girls are not bad as well
and sure it wont effect ur health, what about ur first baby was it normal delivery?
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@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
25 Nov 07
good luck..you will have your hands full with the jealousy issues but in the long run it will do more good for the children to share their lives with another siblling but be prepared for the battles..our kids were thirteen months apart and it was like raising twins..a girl and then a boy..but your daughter is a little older and she will probably be more mature to accept another child..how do you know it will be a male child.? I know of people who have six children and they all turned out to be girls...girls run in our family so maybe you know a magic way of creating a male child? lol
@asawako48162 (3321)
• United States
25 Nov 07
maybe you will end up with twins? triplets? or more? it could happen
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
28 Nov 07
Taking another child depends on your health right now and financial status. You can be really in need of another baby but if you don't have enough money to raise the baby then you will be in problem. Also your health should determine if you can carry a pregnancy to term.
So please weigh your options well and don't listen to the pressure from your friends because when you will be suffering and lacking money to pay for bills they will not be there to help.
Good luck.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
30 Nov 07
What do you mean have a child..conceive? If you feel you want another child and you will give him/her all the love you can..yes go for it..but if the child is not a male..will you love it as much?
@cartoon4umaniacs (1648)
• United States
25 Nov 07
I think you so go for it. I had my daughter a year after I got married and waited 5 years before we had our next child. She was very lonely. I wish we didn't waited for so long. It would have been nice for her to have had a sibling sooner rather than later. She wouldn't have been so lonely and she wouldn't be so shy. It would have been easier for me to I was told. Then she would have gotten attention from her sibling therefore needing less from me. Good luck.
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@supriyorajj (169)
• India
23 Nov 07
No I personally would not suggest you to do so.
But then the greatest fact is that we need to keep
track of what our myth suggests.that is just to say we need to keep track of our traditions.So just be happy for all that you have and desire what the desire desires.
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@UnselfishShellfish (1306)
• United States
26 Dec 07
Why would you want to pop out a kid just because your friends want you to?
You do what you want to do. To hell with them. If they want you to have a kid so bad, they can go get pregnant and worry about their own kids and they can stay out of your life. It's your life, not theirs.
If you don't want another child, don't have one. But by all means don't let anyone talk you into doing something you don't want to do.