Is it psychological?
By eftychiap
@eftychiap (349)
Cyprus
November 22, 2007 3:20am CST
Lately, I believe that something is wrong with me: I am not in the mood to get intimate with my husband. I just don't want to, don't think about it, and when my hubby wants to, I avoid him and then feel bad about it. The thing is that yesterday when he got closer, I didn't want to push him away once again, so I tried not to feel bad, and we eventually made love. And it was really great.But before it happened I was feeling bad and couldn't do it. I don't know what it is. What's happening to me?
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4 responses
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
22 Nov 07
Hey, I dont think there is anything wrong with you. I think it is a psychological thing and also hormonal changes that is happening in your body. It also depends on your age.
If you are almost 50 or past 50 then I guess its the begining of menopause. Am not very sure.
@eftychiap (349)
• Cyprus
22 Nov 07
Friends I am 25 and just married a few months ago..I am really freaking out here..Is it from stress?
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@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
23 Nov 07
Ohooooo! Now I understand you! There is nothing wrong with you. Only cold feet and it will fade away with time. Just try to talk to your husband to understand you. Tell him how you feel and get a solution to this temporary change of behavior. Dont worry things will be better with time.
@supriyorajj (169)
• India
22 Nov 07
When you are in a relationship with the husband you get to know your responsibilities felt.There have been peoples who
have been enjoying their life with perfection by just ignoring such simple issues as has been mentioned by you.We got to get to terms with the lifestyles as is the requirements of time.If some problems have indeed cropped up ,open out the issues and get the problem sorted out.
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@cyfernet (2383)
• United States
22 Nov 07
I think it's better to go and visit a Doctor to know if everything's ok in ur body. if everything is fine then maybe it's ur mood. maybe u are not turned ON easily. if u feel like getting close to ur husband then don't miss that opportunity.
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@Jasmine78 (135)
• United States
23 Nov 07
Are you in some stress? For me, if there is some stess then I will not in the good mood to get intimate with my husband.
@eftychiap (349)
• Cyprus
23 Nov 07
Yes I guess after all you guys mentioned, I think it's stress..This is not happening for long, just a week or two. I guess I am to upset about many things going on in my life and this is totally out of my mind right now. But i will visit my doctor just in case. Thanks everybody! You are really helpful.
