who is the boss?

I strongly believe that BOTH are the boss. One should not rule over the other as marriage is a partnership.. so should being boss.

Hi vsraovr. At home my husband is the king of my family. I have to acquiesce to his order and decision making as I salute to his capability and beholden to family interest. He take family members' proposals and suggestions for his decision making support system. Since I knew him and his life before and after our marriage life. HAPPY DAPPY.

Sometimes I would like to be in your shoes, taking unilateral decisions, but thats still a long to come in our home, I and my wife usually have to agree first, no unilateral decisions in my house and this though has a positive effect on the ownership of decisions, it is too bureaucratic and delays a lot of action on issues that require immediate action.

I am pretty much the boss here right now since my husband is not home. When he is home we try to make decisions together. So ultimately I am happy with how things are overall.

At our home, no one is boss, we live only the two of us and when it comes to decision making, we have to agree on the way forward. If i think the decision is not good for both of us then we again sit down and talk together. I find it cool for and it keeps us together and nobody feels left out.

i really am happy that you are the boss in your home. there is no boss in our place. we get to share responsibilities equally and we enjoy our life here. we are not really children any more. we don't have any more boss to tell us. we have our own different lives now though we still stay in our home. we are just happy with our own lives.

I don't feel that either of us are the boss. We make most decisions together.

You say you’re the boss but then you say you discuss and take the decision which is acceptable to both of you, so that doesn’t sound like you’re the “boss”…lol Personally I don’t think one person should be the boss in any household or relationship. I think most of us have enough of that if we work for someone else. Annie

we are both, sharing views and chores at the same time. i dont think we need a boss around the house.

fuh! thank god im not married yet.hehehe.. but still i see this kind of circumstances is a common sense. let us put this way, husband is a prime minister, who in charge everything and wife is a advisor to the PM. i think husband plays bigger role thank wife. wife manages the house but every decision must though the husband. if this happen, i see a harmony family that ruling by a leader. hehehehe..that is my opinion.thanks