My friends

@tzmmmm (39)
China
November 22, 2007 7:27am CST
Recently,some friends seem to be upset for many reasons ,such as the job,the family or other things.While knowing these,I just feel upset too.I don't know how to make them feel comfortable...
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@ar2sun (122)
• India
22 Nov 07
Send them an email probably that might help . Or do ur best to find their problem and try ur best to help . If u dont find any chance to know your friends' problem then probably it means that ur friends seek loneliness for some days and I suggest you dont speak anything to them for some days but do them let them know now and then(say weekly)through sms or email that u care for them and chose to avoid frequent conversation with them only because they showed indications of avoiding you. Then they will realize how mean they have been and probabaly will send u an apology . Then you can enquire their problem.
@tzmmmm (39)
• China
23 Nov 07
If they feel set because of me,I think I can solve problems.However,it's not the fact.Otherwise,I do want to help them but do not swell their troubles.
• India
22 Nov 07
Hi tzmmmm, There will be many reasons for your friends getting upset. It is not possible for us to know or get full details for their upset. Take for instance, for job---your friend would have scored less marks, Family----may be he is not able to adjust with them. How do we know their problem to give suggestion unless they tell about it. You dont get upset because of that, because you will have your own problems to be solved. Concentrate on that and be happy and help your friends when they tell their problem, that too if you feel it is genuine. Best of Luck.
@tzmmmm (39)
• China
23 Nov 07
Thanks,season0907.Besides,I believe my friends are able to overcome the difficulties in life.It's said that life's best lessons are learned by living.
• China
22 Nov 07
relax, everything will be OK, you needn't do anything just heart what they said. They may feel more comfortable after talking with you.
@tzmmmm (39)
• China
22 Nov 07
Maybe you're right,but we just have no chance to talk together.
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• China
23 Nov 07
Well, I have the same problem.. Friends are always in the first place... But now I find I don't need do something when they are sad. I just need to stand by their side, listen to them and give them my shoulders. That's the best comfort for a friend.