How to choose my true love?
By quentina
@quentina (109)
China
November 23, 2007 12:19am CST
It seems that it's very difficult to decide who will accompany with me experiencing my life later.where is my true love?The marriage is very important to everyone.and how to choose ideal boyfriend become a problem which is puzzling me these days.
Is economic base important?Or is feeling more important?In my opinion,both are important.But that's actually hard to own them synchronously.
what's your opinon?
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4 responses
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
27 Nov 07
"When love beckons to you, follow him, Though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you" by Kahlil Gibran
Your love to one another is the only thing important. Everybody starts from the bottom. Nobody can be rich and live comfortably forever. This is how the world is, and this is why love is important. True love is honest and strong, when true love finds you, you will know. He may not be handsome or rich, but your love to each other will help you endure life challenges. It's your love to each other that can do this, not your love or his love only.
@quentina (109)
• China
27 Nov 07
Thank you very much,dear friend.Suddenly ,i know the genuine meaning of love.Actually love can't been measured by money.As you said"Everybody starts from the bottom."May be love is more great when two person experience the process earning money and creating happy life in common.The true love is sincere,honest,strong.
So i should cherish one who really love me.
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@prettyhanan (694)
• Malaysia
23 Nov 07
Hello quentina.
Marriage is something that cannot be like playing a game. You need to be serious in this case. You need to make a right choice, Nobody can help you. Listen to your heart. It will give you the right one. Ask your friend's comment about your special someone. You know him better. Hope you success.(16 years old girl lie)lol!
HAPPY LUCKY.
**prettyhanan**
@quentina (109)
• China
26 Nov 07
Thank you very much.little sister.You are really right.Actually nobody can help me about it.May be i need more time.Time can explain and prove everything.
My mother give me much pressure about it.She hope me to own my marriage as soon as possible.she thought that it's time for me to marry.
But really need more patience.As you said,I must be serious in this case.
@prettyhanan (694)
• Malaysia
26 Nov 07
Hope you will fine with this test. Don't forget good man just for good man. Hope you will happy with your future husband.
HAPPY LUCKY.
**prettyhanan**
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
28 Nov 07
Dear Quentina,
How do you choose my true love?
I do not choose your love. YOu have to choose or your parents will choose and you have to approve.
How to choose my love?
My parents showed me a girl. I talked to her for couple of minutes. We met for couple of times. We agreed to marry. Thereafter everything is fine even after 15 years.!!
@quentina (109)
• China
28 Nov 07
oh?seems to be simply.don't i think too much?
Recently,i met a guy who just graduated from his unniversity half year ago.he is a graduate student:)just i knew i was very happy when we were together.and we have many many common topics,talking,laughing..really happy.
I know he likes me .I think it's enough.I should love him well.
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
26 Nov 07
Both are important for sure. But I side more with feelings cos, money come and go. You can earn money and spend it the way you want. But feelings are different. You have to love the person to be with him the entire life. It is not easy to be with a person that you dont love or have feelings. So be careful. My mom said, marry the one that who loves you, not the one who you love. Take care.
@quentina (109)
• China
26 Nov 07
Actually right.Thank you.sherinek.I remember your saying.I am definitely puzzled facing the choice.It seems that it's balance between gain and loss.when you get something,at same time,you will lose something.God is fair.Actually the feeling is more important.sometimes i don't feel satisfied.
a little peacockish,material."Happiness consists in content-ment"I try to do it.
I believe the money we can earn.but it's different to the feeling.
I felt that to choose a person as to choose a life style.
May be i like more stable life.so want to choose a stable man.
in fact,i still don't know for sure.
