How do you deal with your difficulties in life or problems in life?

Hi hannahlotski! When i deal with trials and difficulties or problems, I try to be hopeful that things will turn out for the best. I always try to think positive but there are times that as much as i am so hopeful and optimistic about it, I get worried and depressed somehow. I guess, when things are so bleak or vague of how things are going or when it seems its getting worst, you can't help feel but get anxious and panicky. When i can't handle it anymore, i turn to God and pray, that way i felt calm and I guess it is faith that whatever happens it is for the best. And just like you i am very careful not to make things worse by hurting other people's feelings in the process. Take care and have a nice day. :)

First, I try to fix them and for some of them I had to fix myself. That took so therapy. For others, I have learn to endure, and how to live for the little things like enjoying my cats, and laughing at myself. You have to keep hope close at hand to deal with life. Because its the journey and the ups and downs within it that make life what it is. And my friends its better than the alternative as they say.

I try to resolve my problems on my own, but sometimes it is difficult and I will talk to someone objective about it and get some ideas. Sometimes, I post my problems on mylot to get fresh ideas. Sometiems I just write in my journal and go to sleep. When I wake up I can think clearly and resolve the problem then.

Problems and difficulties in life are but normal. Life won't be life without them. When they come my way, I just tell myself that "this too shall pass". When they really come in heaps and bundles, I just try to deal with them head on , one by one, and before I know it, they're gone! I've been through a lot of problems, difficulties, conflicts and what have you. Guess what? They just made me a better person. I also try to learn from my mistakes. When I make wrong decisions sometimes, I learn from it.

i know this sounds bad ,but when somthing happend i go to sleep if possible, when i wake up i am not so upset and have a clear head to deal with what i need to.