When you say "I Love You" and he says "Me Too" - What gives?

Well, it seems that he doesn't feel comfy saying those words he he he...but if it's THAT important to you, maybe you should talk to him about it...tell him that it'll make you feel happy that he says those words to you every once in a while. My hubby doesn't have a problem (doesn't feel awkward) saying "I love you" to me...and if I say "I love you" first, he'll mostly reply with, "I love you too" unless when he's trying to tease me...then he'll say "Thank you" HA HA HA HA HA HA HA...

Dear it doesn't really matter if he can say those words or not...What matters the most is how are his actions toward you...does he show love does he show that he cares for you...those are what you should care more about rather if he can say those three letter words...my dad don't and has never said he loves me but his actions has always been nothing but love and I believe actions speak louder than words...maybe your more emotional and therefore share your feelings and more outspoken about it but he on the other hand is more of a non spoken love but takes care of you and is there for you whenever you need action oriented kind of a love...sometimes it's just harder for them to say those words...you know him best so you would know if he does not say because he is not use to it or that he does not feel it...you would know in your heart just need to look deep inside...just my 2 cents...

one thing about guys.... they would keep their mouth shut even if the girl he loves is too sentimental and having a hard time talking just to let him know that she loves him... but then, accept that. sometimes, they just dont know how to say it and THEY DONT WANT TO SAY IT ALL... but it doesnt mean he does not love you. as long as he does his obligation and still sweet in other ways... accept it

The question is do you feel loved by him? If so, he may just be one of those people that can show love better than say it.If you don't feel you are loved by him, then he may not be in love with you yet. I say yet because of his text answer, " why do you love me?"It sounds like he is still very hurt after his break up with his ex. I am one of those people that rarely say I love you but when I love you, you will be able to feel it.You won't be wondering about my feelings. Your new guy may have feelings but he may not be able to say the words, which is okay as long as you feel the love he has for you. But if he won't say it and you can't feel it, it may not be there.I guess you have to sit him down and ask the question, do you love me?

Yes, he probably just has a hard time saying those 3 little words. "Me too" is better than a response I got from one of my ex-boyfriends....... I told him I loved him and he responded with "Don't say that."

Hi, this is just my opinion, i think he dont love you, that's why he cant even say i love you too. if he really love you then why it is hard for him to say i love you too. or why he always passed or why he never respondod when you say i love you to him. If the guy really love you why he find so hard to answer back. what do you think?

I think it is a hard thing for some people to say especially for some men, its a bit like the hello kissy kissy thing, I was never brough up to do that but eveyone is doing it, I don't feel all that comfortable with that especially from fellow females, so i guess maybe unless in a heat of passion some men just don't feel good about saying it....just my thoughts

It sounds like your man isn't in touch with his feelings at all. I would have to ask if you're in a committed relationship with this person and whether or not you've sat down and actually talked about your feelings with him. If you have, then I would say that maybe he's having second thoughts or isn't sure of what he feels. I would talk to him, if I were you, and let him know that you wanted to talk about something that was bothering you. I would tell him that you love him and want to know if he really does love you in return. If he said that he did, I would tell him that it really kind of hurts you that he doesn't say it in return. That when you hear "me too" that it feels a little dismissive and insincere. I am fortunate to have a man who tells me many times a day that he loves me, and responds in kind when I tell him that I love him. He goes out of his way to show me that he loves me and to tell me so as often as he can. He even wakes up in the middle of the night and tells me he loves me.

Oh my! My feelings would be hurt if that happened. My husband tells me that he loves me multiple times a day. He even calls me from work to check on me and say "I love you" I hope you get this situation under control soon.

Sounds a bit like the fear of committing to stating those three words not the me too, which appears to be less threatening for some reason. In my line of work, feelings are hard to express in general and those of deeper committment are even more difficult to speak let alone live by. If he can show more than say, in a manner that is far more than you expected he is a keeper even if he can't say it too often . . . but if he can't show "I love you's" nor say "I love yous', then houston, you have a communication problem.

I can't help you because I tend to say that myself!

well at least he responds than nothing at all..

No one says that the person saying it has to have a response back. I say it to my DH and sometimes he says I love you too or sometimes just thank you. I don't get upset. I believe more in showing that you love someone rather than saying words. It's just 3 words. I wouldn't get upset.

confront him. ask him if he wants to be with you or not. if he says no there are more fish in the sea

whenever some one says i love u it gives the feeling that some one is here who loves me i m special some one is here who cares 4 me. plz dnt stop saying i love u if u really care 4 someone

You guys need to sit and talk, I think. Do you really think that he loves you? Is he shy or what? I guess something is going around in his mind which he is not able to talk about. just clarify with him.