in order to be succesful in life do u need to be a good actor?

Saudi Arabia
November 25, 2007 12:30pm CST
Okay dont take this discussion to mean acting in necessarily in the deceiving sense, but do you think sometimes people with real emotions who are more reserved in expression get misunderstood than people who áct 'the part, i/e the act the part pf a good son/daughter, good employee, good whatever? In certain situations you need to 'act 'out of a character to show people how you are , yo may be a loving daughter but sometimes if you dont give off the right signals, such as offer to make tea etc..you will be thought of as less considerate one...do you know what I mean?..no one is inside your heart..people only see whats on the outside..and this acing is necessary especially if you are very reserved with your emotions..i wish I had more dram classes at school... what do you guys think..i not sure whether i made myself clear...
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@Estina54 (385)
• United States
25 Nov 07
Good actors also have to keep their emotions to themselves. When we work with people, being emotional or dicussing personal problems makes a worse impression that being reserved. As for me, I prefer talking to somebody apparantly reserved rather than with sobody who gets easily emotional, nervous or shows public displays of affection at the wrong moment, for instance in front of a manager or somebody I discuss an important problem with.