do u belive
@autumnswings02 (67)
United States
9 responses
@kangel48446 (507)
• United States
26 Nov 07
Yes, I do. When I seen my daughters for the first time, I fell in love with them BUT that also was influenced by the 10 months that they were held close to my heart.
As far as love at first sight with a SO, I don't believe in it. Love takes time to develop, Lust is something that we often mistaken for love.
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@keepermykitty (2573)
• Canada
29 Nov 07
No I don`t but doem`t mean it doesn`t happen , just has never happened to me yet ...
Has it ever happened to you ???
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@kara5287 (299)
• United States
25 Nov 07
yes and no. it's more like lust at first site. because if you are going by sight only all you see is looks. they say looks don't matter but they must because if you were to see someone you have never met across the room something has to attract you to them. and it wouldn't be how they act or what they say cause you have never met them. looks is what first attracts and love cannot be based on looks. therefore it would be more of lust at first sight and love later.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
5 Dec 07
Hi,
May be it is inner third eye of love that might be tickling when we get love at first sight. Some get love due to attraction. Any I had seen many getting into serious love after their first love and even married couples. Hence for me I do believe in love at first site.
@xleslieanne (692)
• United States
25 Nov 07
simply - no. i don't. not true love anyway. true love, i believe, is based on more than just sight. more than just looks. LUST at first sight is more like it. i'm not saying you can't have more than just feelings of lust for someone at first.. just not true love. true love is something that grows after being with someone, or being around someone, for a period of time. it's not instant.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
26 Nov 07
I believe in love at many sights than love in the first sight. It takes time to know a person. Most times we can never judge a person at the first sight, but sometimes I have seen love happens at first sight for some people. For some guys love has been sucessful and had fallen in love at first sights and for some guys the person looks like a gift covered in beautiful wrapper. Most times like an old saying "You can never judge a book by its cover." I believe until you read the book you will never know the story of the book and likewise until you spend sometime with a person and know him or her and know that the person is correct person for you you don't know if its real love happening to you.
@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
28 Nov 07
I do believe in love at first site. For my ex husband and I it was love at first sight pretty much and he proposed 3 weeks later. 2 years later we were married. Yes my marriage did fail as after 6 1/2 years together and one child he strayed. But I still believe in the fairytale of love at first sight.