What should I do?

China
November 25, 2007 7:50pm CST
I have found my girlfriend's best friend has fallen in love with me.It is really a serious and painful issue. Who could tell me what I should do? Thank you very much in advance.
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7 responses
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
26 Nov 07
Hello yaq. I think that you have to tell her that it is impossible for you to love another one since you have already had someone in your heart and would be your life partner some day when everything is ready for the marriage. Please be firm to her otherwise you would be at a dilemma in emotion. Good luck to my dear friend.
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• China
28 Nov 07
Thanks so much for the best response, dear friend. May you be smooth in everything!
• China
29 Nov 07
Thank you very much.
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• China
28 Nov 07
Yeah,I quite agree with you. Have a good day,my dearest friend. Thanks a lot.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Nov 07
Drink one cup of cold water. Meditate for 1 hour, suspending from your mind, thoughts of girls. You will get a nice sleep. That is the perk.
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• China
28 Nov 07
That is really a good idea.I would do as you said. Thank you very much. I hope the idea you have said is really having effect. Have a joke.
@bimal10p (1218)
• India
2 Mar 08
there is nothing u can do in stopping her to fall for u..may b u can juss talk abt this thing to her..if then again the thing is goin out of hand then i say u must tell this to ur gf...else it wud create more problems in ur relationship if u keep ur gf unaware of this thing and she finds this out of her own
@subha12 (18441)
• India
29 Nov 07
its a togh situation although quite common. tell her you are already engaed. You have your GF and you are happy with her only. But do this politely.
• China
30 Nov 07
Thank you very much for your advice.
@Ann2407 (305)
• China
26 Nov 07
Do you love her also? If not,refuse her!
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• China
28 Nov 07
Yeah,you are right.I think so.But I do not know how to say to her.She is a introverted girl.If I refuse her,she will do bad things to hurt herself.It is hard to say this to her.
• China
26 Nov 07
Lucky guy. Do you love her or not? If not, that'd be easy. If she tells you her love, refuse her euphemistically or tell her that you love your girlfriend so much and that you won't tell this to your girlfriend to comfort her. If she just shows by someway else-not directly by words, you just pretend that you do not know. She will be clear about that sooner or later. That will work, i think, unless you have fallen in love with her.
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• China
28 Nov 07
Good idea. Thanks a lot.
@jsharriz (436)
• Ukraine
28 Feb 08
try explainin her that ur heart is already pledged to sme1 else.. jus refuse her without havin to break her heart.. make her feel warm yet understand that u love ur gf truthfully.. dat shud make things better.. gud luck. god bless!!