Have you ever cheated?
By Ophelia
@Ophelia (88)
United States
November 25, 2007 11:49pm CST
Have you ever cheated on your partner? and does it make a difference if you are married? I mean, you are "committing" yourself to someone even though it isn't marriage. Have you ever been cheated on? And could you forgive that person and continue to be happy with them knowing what you now know?
Tell me some scandalous stories- you can change the name of the players. lol
4 responses
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Nov 07
Consciously not. But in childhood days just for the heck of fun, I might have. I believe those who indulge in cheating will have to pay ten times the value because that is what the life is made up of. May be initially one may gain by cheating, but I have seen hundreds of people lose substantially in the long run of those who indulge in cheating.
@BayleighGray (4334)
• United States
26 Nov 07
Hi Ophelia,
Ive been cheated on, it sucked and no way could I stand to be with that person anymore. And what kills me even more is that person still acts like its ok. I run into him from time to time, he tries to contact me and I tell him how I feel about him too, it goes right over his head! How did I not see that arrogance? lol
You can see some really scandelous stories on Cheaters. lol I used to watch that all the time, but its on really late now. Last one I saw was this womans husband was caught in a hotel room with a tranny dominatrix. He had on a leather mask, his hands tied getting whipped and his wife, cameras and Joey Greco barge in! HAHAHA He said, "I can explain, shes helping me work through my intimacy issues". Then they got locked out of the hotel in the parking lot and the dominatrix slapped him across the face for forgetting the key card. Now thats entertainment! LOL
Bay Lay Gray xx
@venshida (4836)
• United States
26 Nov 07
I have being cheated on but, I have never cheated. I did forgive the person, and for a long time I brought it up. It was really hard to deal with, but with time I came to put it in the past.
@kangel48446 (507)
• United States
26 Nov 07
Yes, I have cheated on my current boyfriend. For a long time, I was actually torn between my boyfriend and "the other guy" and the situation got even more complicated when I got pregnant during this time. Eventually, I made the decision to stay with my boyfriend and cut all ties with "the other guy" because that's all he ever would of been. It is something I wish I never would of done..
I have been cheated on and as selfish as it sounds, I couldn't forgive them for it. I still don't, even after the relationship ended and we both moved on.