How do you face your insecurities in your relationship?
@quarvalsharess (989)
Malaysia
November 26, 2007 4:47am CST
I know that trust is a big issue in this, and yes, what if you also have that, but you know that there are always possibilities.. and what if you're also the positive thinking type of person and still feel insecure about things. Is it because you're too afraid that your relationship will come to an end? Or is it because you're not confident in yourself or your partner? What causes these insecurities? What is the solution for this problem?
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@piatos03 (393)
• Philippines
2 Jan 08
It's tough to not feel insecure about things sometimes. You trust them completely but it is the other people that you don't. There are a lot of what ifs hanging around. For me, I sometimes get insecure because I've built my whole future around this person and I don't want it to end. That's why I get insecure because of my own fears. But you have to get through them. You have to stay positive. I know that when you're in that position it's really hard to do so, but trust me, in the end it pays off. I know how scared you'll get when you're not together. And when you're finally together, you'll forget that you were ever scared and think that it's foolish of you to be insecure. This is how you truly know that you trust the person.
@quarvalsharess (989)
• Malaysia
3 Jan 08
Thanks piatos03.. sadly, my other half broke up with me already anyways.. I guess my fears were right..
@lhrhaidiluzhang (25)
• China
26 Nov 07
several years ago, i will ignore and escape the insecuritites relationship. but now, i will be more positive. i will ask for others help, for example, discuss with friends,
@quarvalsharess (989)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 07
Thanks!! I'm usually a positive person, but lately, i feel insecure lately.. It's prolly just hormones.. but yeah, you're right.. talking to friends about it makes you feel better.. and better yet, talking to my other half about it.. =)) Thanks for your response!
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@Bombchick (1)
• United States
13 Dec 07
I think that a lot of people in relationships are insecure because they think that they won't be able to function properly without their partner. Many of my friends who are in relationships they aren't happy with and won't end them because they fear they won't be able to do normal things. Like having the fear that they will run into their "ex" at different places. I think something else that causes insecurities in relationships is that many partners don't like their "other half" getting attention for being good-looking or popular. If any one in any relationship has any insecurities in a relationship, you should talk to the other person.
