desperate for friends!!
@silver_shaddow (1204)
November 26, 2007 6:08am CST
It's monday, the middle of the week here. I am bored out of my mind. I got no mail on my computer, I dont have much work to do, no one is on the chat. The sites I visit are dead and dull including this one. I called up a few friends, but no one answers their phones PLUS everyone of them is busy with their own lives, as most of them are married with kids...psssh I feel i like i have reached a DEAD END. Maybe i shoulda stayed in bed huh??
Ever had days like these?? what do you do?
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@mabelk (208)
• Germany
26 Nov 07
Oh I know that... I had a dull weekend two weekends ago. I normally am able to stay at home and face my computer the entire weekend if I don't have any plans but those two days were exceptional. 'Though I spoke to few people, it just felt so boring (but not the people I spoke with). I already had a walk outside for some fresh air and yet it was insufficient. I guess sometimes it just happens that everyone else seems to be busy except you. :-D Enjoy the rest of the week.
@silver_shaddow (1204)
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27 Nov 07
Again, Yes I know that feeling where whatever you do, whomever you meet or talk to does not seem to work. It's good that you can face your pc the entire weekend, but that didnt even work 4 me. NONE of my friends were online. haha...!!
it seems "diving" into a relationship would be a good solution? but i doubt that would work too...dam(n) - life can be torture sometimes.
@silver_shaddow (1204)
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28 Nov 07
Hi mabe,
I swear I didnt see him online that day. And I was "AVAILABLE" to all, i dont use the stealth settings. haha..now I know "something" about you J/K
:P
sent u another PM.
@mabelk (208)
• Germany
27 Nov 07
There goes your friend deadraven999 looking for you in messenger lol hehehe but you must've been hiding under stealth settings (actually that's my setting in messenger) ;-D hahaha
Anyway, mind if I ask why you doubt that relationship would even work? Ok, maybe we can take this one offline. Actually not offline but perhaps PM.
@vikashsabharwal (552)
• India
26 Nov 07
There are days when I desperately want to talk to someone and feel a sense of emptiness but no one to talk to. I then call my parents and then search for my friends whom I have not talked for a long time. After this I go to orkut and see who is online and if that to don't work I go on for a walk.
@silver_shaddow (1204)
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27 Nov 07
True. with days like these, it seems that WHATEVER you do, just DOESNT seem to work. But going for walk would be a good idea, but wont that depress you more to find all those beautiful ppl on the streets and you cant talk to them? lol
@vikashsabharwal (552)
• India
27 Nov 07
Thats no problem I go to some shops and start talking to to the sales people about anything, any product. Sometimes I often find them so convincing that I come out doing some shopping itself. LOL
@deadraven999 (1386)
• Saudi Arabia
9 Dec 07
Believe me guys, true friends are too hard to find these days, we mustn't expect so much for nowadays people. Ethics have changed a lot. Life pace is moving so fast. Life has become so much demanding. But that doesn't mean we consider this as an excuse for not being good friends to others but what i am saying is, I feel the same way too. I don't know, it feels bad when you're surrounded by many so-called friends but when you look at it, you may get surprised that all what connects to them is somehow mutual benefits.
@deadraven999 (1386)
• Saudi Arabia
9 Dec 07
Okey you say you don't have friends? look this is supposedly my post number 500 after which i can cut n paste again 'supposedly'. So since you're one of my dearest friends online then allow me to share this occassion with you and allow my 500 to be posted in this discussion of yours.
Thanks a lot my friend ...
@deadraven999 (1386)
• Saudi Arabia
9 Dec 07
To be exact, my response to you and Vikashsabharwal above was the post by which i reached 500. Yes it is my true 500.
@silver_shaddow (1204)
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9 Dec 07
My friend,
this is deeply a great honor, i don't know what to say..for that the best response goes to you, once again. thank you for incorporating me in to this honorary post. and hey look at you now, a trusted member of my lot. well done my friend!!
@deadraven999 (1386)
• Saudi Arabia
27 Nov 07
Hi there my dear friend,
Even married people, they reach to similar situations, don't worry, you're not alone in this. It is my friend, the spiritual side, yes it is that spiritual side in each and everyone of us that its hunger not yet fulfilled. U reach a point where you feel nothing amuzes you or let me say nothing could bring you that joy. U know I guess the feeling of Joy has drastically been altered either with age factor or by the surrounding. To be more precise, part of this comes from us, as we grow older, as we pass thru life experiences etc, whereas the other part come from the this crazy gurl called life and the new trends she is taking.
U see my friend it is when you feel u need something special to bring out that joy, u know something maybe (joy) has changed I dont know, things that used to entertain us in the past, they no longer function that way. I am still experiencing such emotions and such feelings, u r not alone in this, and hey I was on the messenger yesterday where were you huh.
Again, I go back, the spiritual side, it has be fully fulfilled, is fulfilled with four L's or three? damn I won't check i am leaving it as it is.
Don't worry my friend, you've got friends........
deadraven999
@silver_shaddow (1204)
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28 Nov 07
when were u online, i did not see you? i wish i could have seen u ur status..damn, my loss. must've been online when i went off.
you have hit it on the head my friend. my soul and mind are not @ rest. it seems like happiness and peace of mind were never meant for me. yet i hope it would for you...and PLEASE txt me if u ever get online again :D
